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Jun 5, 2013 5:11 AM CST Shifting Focus
magiclove65
magiclove65magiclove65Tbilisi, Georgia19 Threads 347 Posts
I feel the world is moving more and more towards segregation of race, nationality etc, and this is affecting dating attitude of men and women , mostly in the wstern world. So I find it easier to relate to agirl say from South America , than Belgium ( Just as an example )
In dating sites, girls from the first group close their mail to outsiders, but in the second category , it is not so.
so as a person who is travelling the world, I feel I can find love easier in place say like Dominican republic or Thailand, than Norway. And I am shifting my focus in my explorations.

What are yor views? What are you focusing on?heart beating
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Jun 12, 2013 4:39 PM CST Shifting Focus
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
magiclove65: I feel the world is moving more and more towards segregation of race, nationality etc, and this is affecting dating attitude of men and women , mostly in the wstern world. So I find it easier to relate to agirl say from South America , than Belgium ( Just as an example )
In dating sites, girls from the first group close their mail to outsiders, but in the second category , it is not so.
so as a person who is travelling the world, I feel I can find love easier in place say like Dominican republic or Thailand, than Norway. And I am shifting my focus in my explorations.

What are yor views? What are you focusing on?

Play twister with loose drunken women, mostly
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Jun 13, 2013 11:17 AM CST Shifting Focus
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Well, I live in the western world and I feel the opposite is happening. dunno
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Jun 15, 2013 1:53 PM CST Shifting Focus
magiclove65
magiclove65magiclove65Tbilisi, Georgia19 Threads 347 Posts
venusenvy: Well, I live in the western world and I feel the opposite is happening.


opposite of what?
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Jun 15, 2013 2:13 PM CST Shifting Focus
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
magiclove65: I feel the world is moving more and more towards segregation of race, nationality etc, and this is affecting dating attitude of men and women , mostly in the wstern world. So I find it easier to relate to agirl say from South America , than Belgium ( Just as an example )
In dating sites, girls from the first group close their mail to outsiders, but in the second category , it is not so.
so as a person who is travelling the world, I feel I can find love easier in place say like Dominican republic or Thailand, than Norway. And I am shifting my focus in my explorations.

What are yor views? What are you focusing on?


I was focusing on the near surroundings, say 100 miles distance at most but now decided that 'looking' does not make much sense. I am also thinking that in an uncertain world as it is today I may have to move elsewhere for work. What is the point finding someone here if I will have to go? dunno
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Jun 15, 2013 8:55 PM CST Shifting Focus
IgorFrankensteen
IgorFrankensteenIgorFrankensteenSpringfield, Virginia USA63 Posts
I'm skeptical at the idea that entire continents are "evolving" rapidly in a unified way. My first thought is that when someone thinks that huge groups of people are changing, that it is actually themselves who is doing the changing. But if i works for you, have at it.

I am focusing on the slow and very difficult nudging of my own life, to try get to the point where I can be desirable as a permanent mate for someone again. It aint easy in this economy, and at my age.
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Jun 15, 2013 9:02 PM CST Shifting Focus
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
IgorFrankensteen: I'm skeptical at the idea that entire continents are "evolving" rapidly in a unified way. My first thought is that when someone thinks that huge groups of people are changing, that it is actually themselves who is doing the changing. But if i works for you, have at it.

I am focusing on the slow and very difficult nudging of my own life, to try get to the point where I can be desirable as a permanent mate for someone again. It aint easy in this economy, and at my age.

Igor, good to see you. wave
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Jul 1, 2013 1:23 PM CST Shifting Focus
magiclove65
magiclove65magiclove65Tbilisi, Georgia19 Threads 347 Posts
IgorFrankensteen: I'm skeptical at the idea that entire continents are "evolving" rapidly in a unified way. My first thought is that when someone thinks that huge groups of people are changing, that it is actually themselves who is doing the changing. But if i works for you, have at it.

I am focusing on the slow and very difficult nudging of my own life, to try get to the point where I can be desirable as a permanent mate for someone again. It aint easy in this economy, and at my age.


You are from USA.Your world is very different from mine. I have seen girls running away from me for the color of hair or my passport
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Jul 1, 2013 1:45 PM CST Shifting Focus
magiclove65: You are from USA.Your world is very different from mine. I have seen girls running away from me for the color of hair or my passport


funny, it happens here too.
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