I think that this is going to the extreme - if I ever felt that I was on a date where my words, appearance and unconscious actions were being scrutinized it would make me uncomfortable.
As far as my point I'm just say that for some reason me like the chase. So, when they see an attractive lady they think it's more of a challenge than anything. A male friend told me if he see a woman and she is single .... he will turn because he call tell that she is looking and that turns him off. But she can be single and be with friends having a good time ....but to him a female alone looks despart. Not my words his.... I don't agree but that's what I was told.
I didn't say that that was what you were doing. You initially asked why no second date...are you the only one having fun...I was just wondering what the circumstances were on those first dates. Whether you prefer to meet in a quiet place on a first date, something which gives the both of you time to talk, or do you prefer to plan a night on the town like in a dance club where it's hard to hear each other and it's full of distractions. That's all.
That'll be the day that I go out with a freakin' script to read from in order to not offend thee. You're the one who's scruitinizing and most likely why you're still alone. I LIVE AND LET LIVE, period. Try it sometime.
Then next time before going on a tangent about something you're not even sure about, ask a simple question. You were very presumtuous and rude with your assumptions. Quel turn off.
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