WHAT ARE YOU MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR BECAUSE I'M CONFUSED! (59)
MYCUTEFRENCHIEMontreal, Quebec Canada1 Threads 22 PostsI'm funny, attractive, intelligent, cute as all get go....but it seems that men are looking for perfection, are they?? I don't know anymore. I'm just looking for ONE great guy who catches my eye, and if I go out on a date and have a great time with the guy, how come no second date?? Do I intimidate men? What do you want?? I'm not the only one having a good time, or am I?
I think you are most attractive to a man when you are not avaiable. Because I've noticed that when I have a boyfriend they come out of the wood work. But, when your alone and single they willn't not look side ways. Guess it must be a male ego thing.
hmmm, interesting and so true. When I did have a boyfriend the guys were all out of the wood work, very interesting!!
Talking about CS experience or in major ...or out there?
I don't partake in CS , so what I mean is in general.....
you wonder too much beyond...perhaps look at the present and what was offered to you and what you offered to him.
Then afterwards take that and carry on..it's a life's lessons for when you do meet the right one...it WILL happen...people just look for it too much...
I think you can love once in a lifetime - whether it be forever or for 2 or 4years or howhever long. I am happy for the 2 greatest relationships I've had and would do it over again. If I do not find it again it will be okay...cause I have not only loved once...but twice.
goodluck and give it time!
Then afterwards take that and carry on..it's a life's lessons for when you do meet the right one...it WILL happen...people just look for it too much...
I think you can love once in a lifetime - whether it be forever or for 2 or 4years or howhever long. I am happy for the 2 greatest relationships I've had and would do it over again. If I do not find it again it will be okay...cause I have not only loved once...but twice.
goodluck and give it time!
Just let go of your expectations. I have learned to do so. Because the more we expect the more we end up disappointed.
Just enjoy your life and not focus on the dating. Go out with friends, volunteer somewhere. Enjoy your life because you never know what tomorrow brings...
Just enjoy your life and not focus on the dating. Go out with friends, volunteer somewhere. Enjoy your life because you never know what tomorrow brings...
Sound's to me like you just haven't met any decent guy's yet?
As much as I appreciate the feedback from my female counterparts, advice is not what I'm looking for. I understand I have not met the right one yet....I have neither expectations, nor do I sit at home waiting for Mr. Right to come smashing through my front door on a white horse...but that would be interesting to see I have to say....my question was simply, when you meet on the dating sites, obviously you've exchanged emails, photos and there's an interest.....are men simply going out on dates out of curiosity??
Well talking to someone and actually meeting them is quite often 2 different thing's. I know I've talked to people online and when I met them in person they were not what I thought they were. Maybe that's the case with you? Just an opinion.
Well, "stop" looking for Mr Right..he's too busy primping his hair because he knows it'll all be gone in ten years
Seriously, i would just ask like it doesnt bother you and then leave it until "he" calls you up again. At that point it is "Let the head games begin"
Seriously, i would just ask like it doesnt bother you and then leave it until "he" calls you up again. At that point it is "Let the head games begin"
I'm just so confused this morning.....
sure i go on dates out of curiosity especially if i have met them online. I want to see what they are like so a date is a place to start. Sometimes after meeting them i realize there not for me on a relationship level but often make friends.
You look like an attractive woman, and yes, some guys could be intimidated by that. Do any of these first dates involve going to a busy club? If so, and I know you probably don't want to be rude, but do you let other guys talk to you while your new date is waiting for you to turn your attention back to him, or while he's away getting the next drinks from the bar? If this is happening, don't judge the guy right off and say he's just being insecure...pay attention to your date. It's just a small sacrifice to make while you get to know each other better, otherwise he may not want to make the effort if he thinks you're not serious about trying. Or does the second date not materialize after you meet in a quiet spot, too?
For my own part I disagree Susie, I look for women who are available and stay away from those taken.
Now, to answer the initial question posed by thatcutefrenchie I find that at my age and after the relationships I've had I'm not looking for perfection however, my criteria of what I'm looking for has been refined to the point that perhaps I'm being too picky.
Now, to answer the initial question posed by thatcutefrenchie I find that at my age and after the relationships I've had I'm not looking for perfection however, my criteria of what I'm looking for has been refined to the point that perhaps I'm being too picky.
The East coast is beautiful! Something in that water I swear...
Chances are, It was something you said or didn't say during your conversations with him. Be aware of your body language.
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