A Nerd or A Jock (Ladies) (29)
Jock or a nerd? Seems you just stuck to old straight jacketed stereotypes... exclusively jock type or exclusively nerd type...
There's people that can do both at the same time... then again... to get them you have to deserve them in the first place.
There's people that can do both at the same time... then again... to get them you have to deserve them in the first place.
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maybe look for a geek or dork next time
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Men are such simple creatures and really not half as complicated as us - if you take a man at face value without tryng to categorize him you'd find out he can be your nerd; your jock; your sensitive best friend; your warrior and protector............he can be everything for you the moment he realizes you will be everything for him as well.
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LoriJames20: Men are such simple creatures and really not half as complicated as us - if you take a man at face value without tryng to categorize him you'd find out he can be your nerd; your jock; your sensitive best friend; your warrior and protector............he can be everything for you the moment he realizes you will be everything for him as well.
LoriJames20...what a wonderful attitude to have
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I agree you do get guys that are nerds and jocks all in one with tattoos
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LoriJames20: Men are such simple creatures and really not half as complicated as us - if you take a man at face value without tryng to categorize him you'd find out he can be your nerd; your jock; your sensitive best friend; your warrior and protector............he can be everything for you the moment he realizes you will be everything for him as well.
Yes, emotionally we're less complicated and we demand less to be satisfied(in general). But we're not thick; men built civilisation and created maths and science and these are all pretty complicated. We grapple with external complexities to achieve progress and/or understanding. We don't really do internal complexity for complexity's sake because of our smaller egos.
But no, most nerds are not jocks, most nerds avoid confrontation and when they don't they get get their arses handed to them by earthy men. I know amongst many of my friends I'm one of the few that can spell. Your belief/expectation that men can be all things would make much more sense if you had a picture up of a really hot babe. You know, the 8+'s that can actually attract these kinds of men.
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Tormented: LoriJames20...what a wonderful attitude to have
Isn't that the way it is supposed to be? If we spend too much time and energy categorizing or compartmentalizing a person we may never truly get to know the real person simply because of basing our judgements on stereotypical expectations or flaws only.
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Tormented: LoriJames20...what a wonderful attitude to have
You like being called "simple" then?
"Complicated" I would need to have defined in this context, but if it is what I think LoriJames means, I don't believe for one minute it is gender related.
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janie1305: You like being called "simple" then?
"Complicated" I would need to have defined in this context, but if it is what I think LoriJames means, I don't believe for one minute it is gender related.
"Complicated" I would need to have defined in this context, but if it is what I think LoriJames means, I don't believe for one minute it is gender related.
Great!! At least you can relate that I was generalizing.
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Why do they have to be useful? Surely,a kind,positive, genuine man who can give love is what is important.
Its not nice to pidgeon hole people.
Its not nice to pidgeon hole people.
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rebel2: Why do they have to be useful? Surely,a kind,positive, genuine man who can give love is what is important.
Its not nice to pidgeon hole people.
Its not nice to pidgeon hole people.
Bravo! Well said, Reb.
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online today!rebel2: Why do they have to be useful? Surely,a kind,positive, genuine man who can give love is what is important.
Its not nice to pidgeon hole people.
hi reb I agree........some of tho flash guy are fun to some woman....walk/talk types.....who change their woman..as ofte as they change their shirts......(users).......jmo.Its not nice to pidgeon hole people.
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LoriJames20: Isn't that the way it is supposed to be? If we spend too much time and energy categorizing or compartmentalizing a person we may never truly get to know the real person simply because of basing our judgements on stereotypical expectations or flaws only.
Yes LoriJames20,i agree...thought it was a great comment,thats all.
my previous comment was intended to be sarcastic
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janie1305: You like being called "simple" then?
"Complicated" I would need to have defined in this context, but if it is what I think LoriJames means, I don't believe for one minute it is gender related.
"Complicated" I would need to have defined in this context, but if it is what I think LoriJames means, I don't believe for one minute it is gender related.
never had a problem with ''anyone'' thinking am simple Janie305,it gives me an advantage in reality.
I didn't believe for one minute LoriJames20 comment was gender related either...sorry if mine was misinterpreted.
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Did you not notice the laughing emoticon I used? Of course I wasn't referring to the OP comment literally. 
And I certainly don't think you are "simple". I don't know you at all.
As for previous comments, it's fine for those of you guys here who have talked about "flash" guys and how nice guys who can be trusted are here too, but you forget that most of us measure quite a lot based on posts initially, and those who constantly flirt outrageously, swear a lot, or get too personal put some of us right off, however friendly we may be towards you on the forums.
That's my personal opinion anyway, and I've chatted to a lot of CS women over the years who think the same.
In addition, some of us, and I don't exclude myself here, pigeonhole ourselves unwittingly perhaps. That's one of the disadvantages of online communication. People may be themselves and as human nature dictates, some will like us and others will not, or they may act crudely or too personal just because they are like that in real life or just because they can here to get attention. The problem for readers is deciding what is real and what is not.
And I certainly don't think you are "simple". I don't know you at all.As for previous comments, it's fine for those of you guys here who have talked about "flash" guys and how nice guys who can be trusted are here too, but you forget that most of us measure quite a lot based on posts initially, and those who constantly flirt outrageously, swear a lot, or get too personal put some of us right off, however friendly we may be towards you on the forums.
That's my personal opinion anyway, and I've chatted to a lot of CS women over the years who think the same.
In addition, some of us, and I don't exclude myself here, pigeonhole ourselves unwittingly perhaps. That's one of the disadvantages of online communication. People may be themselves and as human nature dictates, some will like us and others will not, or they may act crudely or too personal just because they are like that in real life or just because they can here to get attention. The problem for readers is deciding what is real and what is not.
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online today!....being a father/granddad./creatgrandad/great.great granddad.........I don't give a ....fig............
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Tormented: Yes LoriJames20,i agree...thought it was a great comment,thats all.
my previous comment was intended to be sarcastic
my previous comment was intended to be sarcastic
sry typo error.
''my previous comment ''wasn't'' intended to be sarcastic''
@Janie,that's absolutely fine
am not touché type
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Tormented: sry typo error.
''my previous comment ''wasn't'' intended to be sarcastic''
@Janie,that's absolutely fine am not touché type
''my previous comment ''wasn't'' intended to be sarcastic''
@Janie,that's absolutely fine am not touché type
Good.
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LoriJames20: Men are such simple creatures and really not half as complicated as us - if you take a man at face value without tryng to categorize him you'd find out he can be your nerd; your jock; your sensitive best friend; your warrior and protector............he can be everything for you the moment he realizes you will be everything for him as well.
I agree with your comments, my thread was only meant to be enjoyable, not taken as it was. Seems sad the misunderstanding
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Well right now I sure could use the nerd computer type to help me with my homework
First Hubby was a strong jock type, second was a nerd...dang, should have kept that 2nd one...sure could use his brains right now
Brains win out now over Brawn
Finally off to school