One would hope to meet their soulmate early in life before marrying the wrong person(s) and having children. In my situation,I'm nearing 60, I've never married, never had children,both parents are deceased and I have less obligations compared to everybody else out there. One thing we all have to contend with if we have to chance to meet someone special and end up together is deciding what to do about who is moving in with who,lol.
LadyDiz: Peace of mind is good, but I have to disagree with you - you can get much more. Consideration, passion, mutual emotional support, fun....to list just a few. Maybe 'true love' as written about by poets is not realistic, but a deep and abiding love is possible.
yes you can have all those things only to have it taken away from you after 17 yrs of marriage....11 the first time...so with that being said, true love supposedly never goes away...but mine did, that's all I'm saying
SoonerGal: yes you can have all those things only to have it taken away from you after 17 yrs of marriage....11 the first time...so with that being said, true love supposedly never goes away...but mine did, that's all I'm saying
It's not easy...there's the old saying If you love something set it free if it comes back its yours if not it was never meant to be, but really that saying is putting a bob each way to coin a phrase, *True Love* i would see as loving the good with the bad, but sometimes u are in a situation that never should have been, , ....true love never goes away.. hmmm, i would more say true feelings never go away, whether this place allows a connection, difficult to say, but if anything else you can meet some friends :)
skippyguy: It's not easy...there's the old saying If you love something set it free if it comes back its yours if not it was never meant to be, but really that saying is putting a bob each way to coin a phrase, *True Love* i would see as loving the good with the bad, but sometimes u are in a situation that never should have been, , ....true love never goes away.. hmmm, i would more say true feelings never go away, whether this place allows a connection, difficult to say, but if anything else you can meet some friends :)
"love" just complicates things....so for me the best possible solution is to just find someone that "compliments" you...brings out the best in you...someone you can just get along with..
But your young and I really hope you find true love
SoonerGal: "love" just complicates things....so for me the best possible solution is to just find someone that "compliments" you...brings out the best in you...someone you can just get along with..
But your young and I really hope you find true love
True love...true companionship, it's a fine line, but you are quite right , hopefully it is someone you can get along with !!! would help..lol You have changed your profile name from whom i remember !
skippyguy: True love...true companionship, it's a fine line, but you are quite right , hopefully it is someone you can get along with !!! would help..lol You have changed your profile name from whom i remember !
I did, it was OkieChic or something like that...there was a reason I did that...I won't bore you with the gruesome details lol
only reason I said about the getting along thing...is my ex and I actually got along rather well...sadly it didn't work out...so "if" and that's a big "if" I get with someone I'll leave love out of the equation so if it goes bad, I don't get hurt :)
A site like this is only a tool to widen your chances to meet individuals for whatever you are looking for. You could just stand on a bus stop all day instead, hoping someone will bump into you, same principle I'd say. No guarantee that you will meet someone, just an increase of opportunity.
I came to find some friends and have succeeded in that, one I am now even meeting in the physical world on a regular basis (when he is out in the area, happens every 2 weeks or so ^_^)
Love finds us when the time is right for it, that's how I look at it. No use to get frustrated. Desperation is a bad advisor
SoonerGal: I did, it was OkieChic or something like that...there was a reason I did that...I won't bore you with the gruesome details lol
only reason I said about the getting along thing...is my ex and I actually got along rather well...sadly it didn't work out...so "if" and that's a big "if" I get with someone I'll leave love out of the equation so if it goes bad, I don't get hurt :)
Ahh yes it was indeed, i remember a friend here whos now moved overseas was living along merrily then one morning his partner said...this is not working ...and asked him to move out, thing was he had no idea !, i see what you r saying about the love part, a little trickier in reality i think though....
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Yes I agree, but the "soulmate"post made by Chemistry suggested everybody would do it.
I'm like you and I could move too, but I know there are far more here who could not.