Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love? ( Archived) (58)

Oct 6, 2013 1:29 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
janie1305
janie1305janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK16 Threads 916 Posts
LadyDiz: Agreed, but the operative words are 'some' can and would....


Yes I agree, but the "soulmate"post made by Chemistry suggested everybody would do it. bouquet

I'm like you and I could move too, but I know there are far more here who could not.
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Oct 6, 2013 6:37 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
One would hope to meet their soulmate early in life before marrying the wrong person(s) and having children. In my situation,I'm nearing 60, I've never married, never had children,both parents are deceased and I have less obligations compared to everybody else out there. One thing we all have to contend with if we have to chance to meet someone special and end up together is deciding what to do about who is moving in with who,lol.
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Oct 6, 2013 6:55 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
.....yer I,d relocate hang on....wheres my wheelchair/zimmer frame/white walking stick/...falce teeth/hearing aid/ wig....../potty........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 6, 2013 6:57 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
Torless
TorlessTorlessChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand9 Threads 1,499 Posts
here let me help you tru....lol.....grin
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Oct 6, 2013 6:59 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
LadyDiz: Peace of mind is good, but I have to disagree with you - you can get much more. Consideration, passion, mutual emotional support, fun....to list just a few. Maybe 'true love' as written about by poets is not realistic, but a deep and abiding love is possible.



yes you can have all those things only to have it taken away from you after 17 yrs of marriage....11 the first time...so with that being said, true love supposedly never goes away...but mine did, that's all I'm saying

cheers
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Oct 6, 2013 7:00 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
Torless
TorlessTorlessChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand9 Threads 1,499 Posts
Carpe Diem....tru and others.....all we have is time...and its what and who you shoose to spend it with grin
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Oct 6, 2013 7:01 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Brannigan70: Hey Soonergal take a look over there>>>>>>>>
Take note , love's not beyond the boundaries of possibility ye old cynic


LOL...love is so overrated...what's love got to with it? it's just a second hand emotion

laugh dancing boogie
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Oct 6, 2013 7:04 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
SoulMate roll eyes
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Oct 6, 2013 7:10 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
SoonerGal: yes you can have all those things only to have it taken away from you after 17 yrs of marriage....11 the first time...so with that being said, true love supposedly never goes away...but mine did, that's all I'm saying


It's not easy...there's the old saying If you love something set it free if it comes back its yours if not it was never meant to be, but really that saying is putting a bob each way to coin a phrase, *True Love*
i would see as loving the good with the bad, but sometimes u are in a situation that never should have been, , ....true love never goes away..
hmmm, i would more say true feelings never go away, whether this place allows a connection, difficult to say, but if anything else you can meet some friends :)
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Oct 6, 2013 7:11 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
SoonerGal: LOL...love is so overrated...what's love got to with it? it's just a second hand emotion


Classic Turner..lol
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Oct 6, 2013 7:19 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
skippyguy: It's not easy...there's the old saying If you love something set it free if it comes back its yours if not it was never meant to be, but really that saying is putting a bob each way to coin a phrase, *True Love*
i would see as loving the good with the bad, but sometimes u are in a situation that never should have been, , ....true love never goes away..
hmmm, i would more say true feelings never go away, whether this place allows a connection, difficult to say, but if anything else you can meet some friends :)



"love" just complicates things....so for me the best possible solution is to just find someone that "compliments" you...brings out the best in you...someone you can just get along with..

But your young and I really hope you find true love

bouquet
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Oct 6, 2013 7:20 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
skippyguy: Classic Turner..lol



oh yah :)
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Oct 6, 2013 7:23 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
SoonerGal: "love" just complicates things....so for me the best possible solution is to just find someone that "compliments" you...brings out the best in you...someone you can just get along with..

But your young and I really hope you find true love


True love...true companionship, it's a fine line, but you are quite right , hopefully it is someone you can get along with !!! would help..lol You have changed your profile name from whom i remember !
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Oct 6, 2013 7:30 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
skippyguy: True love...true companionship, it's a fine line, but you are quite right , hopefully it is someone you can get along with !!! would help..lol You have changed your profile name from whom i remember !



I did, it was OkieChic or something like that...there was a reason I did that...I won't bore you with the gruesome details lol

only reason I said about the getting along thing...is my ex and I actually got along rather well...sadly it didn't work out...so "if" and that's a big "if" I get with someone I'll leave love out of the equation so if it goes bad, I don't get hurt :)
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Oct 6, 2013 7:48 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
SoonerGal: LOL...love is so overrated...what's love got to with it? it's just a second hand emotion
Hi SoonerGal Love as everything to do with it it as to start somewere.wave teddybear
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Oct 6, 2013 7:49 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
A site like this is only a tool to widen your chances to meet individuals for whatever you are looking for. You could just stand on a bus stop all day instead, hoping someone will bump into you, same principle I'd say. No guarantee that you will meet someone, just an increase of opportunity.

I came to find some friends and have succeeded in that, one I am now even meeting in the physical world on a regular basis (when he is out in the area, happens every 2 weeks or so ^_^)

Love finds us when the time is right for it, that's how I look at it. No use to get frustrated. Desperation is a bad advisor playball
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Oct 6, 2013 8:02 PM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
WhistlingDixie
WhistlingDixieWhistlingDixieTramping Round, Cumbria, England UK8 Threads 338 Posts
Finding True Love Ay .

Well if you cant be happy living on your own then whats the point of lumbering yourself on someone else .

And if you are happy on your own , same thing .
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Oct 7, 2013 12:14 AM CST Is connecting singles the wrong site to find true love?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
SoonerGal: I did, it was OkieChic or something like that...there was a reason I did that...I won't bore you with the gruesome details lol

only reason I said about the getting along thing...is my ex and I actually got along rather well...sadly it didn't work out...so "if" and that's a big "if" I get with someone I'll leave love out of the equation so if it goes bad, I don't get hurt :)


Ahh yes it was indeed, i remember a friend here whos now moved overseas
was living along merrily then one morning his partner said...this is not working ...and asked him to move out, thing was he had no idea !, i see what you r saying about the love part, a little trickier in reality i think though....
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