The Science of Happiness (13)

Sep 26, 2013 3:47 PM CST The Science of Happiness
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
I watched this and thought I'd share.
It made me cry a little :)
Call me a fool, but I believe in this, and I am not just grateful to those who inspired me and gave me good times, but also to some who gave me bad times, for I learned through the pains and terrors too.

Anyway: The Science of Happiness - An Experiment in Gratitude heart wings

Sep 26, 2013 6:05 PM CST The Science of Happiness
facetowardsfront
facetowardsfrontfacetowardsfrontCork, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 2,921 Posts
"Psychologists have scientifically proven that one of the greatest contributing factors to overall happiness in your life is how much gratitude you show"



Kant said, "ingratitude is among the vices that are the essence of vileness and wickedness"
Sep 26, 2013 7:44 PM CST The Science of Happiness
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
tinyfangs: I watched this and thought I'd share.
It made me cry a little :)
Call me a fool, but I believe in this, and I am not just grateful to those who inspired me and gave me good times, but also to some who gave me bad times, for I learned through the pains and terrors too.

Anyway: The Science of Happiness - An Experiment in Gratitude



Being grateful for the little things in life that we are free to enjoy no matter what helps increase our happiness as well. Taking a good life for granted and only looking for more and more, whether stuff or excitement or even love, isn't good for us. Being thankful makes us look at what we already have and what has been done for us and makes us feel more fulfilled. Giving thanks is a simple way of giving back.
Sep 26, 2013 7:48 PM CST The Science of Happiness
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
tinyfangs: I watched this and thought I'd share.
It made me cry a little :)
Call me a fool, but I believe in this, and I am not just grateful to those who inspired me and gave me good times, but also to some who gave me bad times, for I learned through the pains and terrors too.

Anyway: The Science of Happiness - An Experiment in Gratitude

watched that id love to upload a scud missile to him teddybear barf
Sep 26, 2013 8:46 PM CST The Science of Happiness
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
facetowardsfront: Kant said, "ingratitude is among the vices that are the essence of vileness and wickedness"


Having been on the receiving end of ingratitude (same as I am sure others have been) I very much agree with Kant.

LadyBlackAdder: Being grateful for the little things in life that we are free to enjoy no matter what helps increase our happiness as well.


thumbs up so true


mjpd67: watched that id love to upload a scud missile to him


because you don't like the guy or because you disagree with being grateful?



Interesting read

Sep 27, 2013 3:18 PM CST The Science of Happiness
facetowardsfront
facetowardsfrontfacetowardsfrontCork, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 2,921 Posts
tinyfangs: Having been on the receiving end of ingratitude (same as I am sure others have been) I very much agree with Kant


Kant was a philosopher so I think what he is alluding to is a sense of gratituted rather than incidences of personal gratitute. In other words, those who have a sense of gratitute for their life exhibit a goodness. I'm sure that retaining a sense of wonder, a sense of innocence and a sense of adventure are also things that make an individual happier.

In a recent thread I said I found atheists/humanists to be quite vile people. Not that some are not personable and quite gregarious but their reliance on reason, intellect and science as their supreme guidance and their disbelief in anything greater than these, makes them such ingrates they exude a self-importance and true ignorance which I can only stomach in small doses.
Sep 27, 2013 5:02 PM CST The Science of Happiness
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
facetowardsfront: Kant was a philosopher ...


I think the full Kant quote goes something like this:
"Ingratitude is among the vices that are the essence of vileness and wickedness. It is inhuman to hate and persecute one from whom we have reaped a benefit, and if such conduct were the rule it would cause untold harm. Men would then be afraid to do good to anyone lest they should receive evil in return for their good."

That would to me mean he is actually referring to personal interactions, but maybe I am interpreting him wrong.

As for the atheist/humanist argument, I am torn there, as while I agree with sensing some of what you state there in atheists, I have in turn felt that I can end sensing something similar in some 'believers'. The latter then when believers seem to claim an almost personal relationship to their god(s), and as if through having that relationship they are somewhat 'better', almost like some will sound like that because they know someone 'famous' or 'rich/powerful'.

I am not religious, I am just insane.. I apologize even to stones when I kick them and say thank you my toaster uh oh help moping
Sep 27, 2013 5:07 PM CST The Science of Happiness
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
tinyfangs: I watched this and thought I'd share.
It made me cry a little :)
Call me a fool, but I believe in this, and I am not just grateful to those who inspired me and gave me good times, but also to some who gave me bad times, for I learned through the pains and terrors too.

Anyway: The Science of Happiness - An Experiment in Gratitude




How did the young mans Mother know it was him calling? confused
Sep 27, 2013 5:11 PM CST The Science of Happiness
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
Glatlol: How did the young mans Mother know it was him calling?


no clue, could be they linked the sets, but not sure how actually 'real' the vid itself is, just the message on its own I personally believe in head banger
Sep 27, 2013 5:12 PM CST The Science of Happiness
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
tinyfangs: no clue, could be they linked the sets, but not sure how actually 'real' the vid itself is, just the message on its own I personally believe in



I stopped watching at that point tbh.
Sep 27, 2013 5:20 PM CST The Science of Happiness
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
Glatlol: I stopped watching at that point tbh.


Not blaming you, if it's a fake they should have done that better, but like I said, the message I feel is important, and I am glad I told my parents how grateful I am before I lost them.
Sep 27, 2013 5:23 PM CST The Science of Happiness
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
tinyfangs: Not blaming you, if it's a fake they should have done that better, but like I said, the message I feel is important, and I am glad I told my parents how grateful I am before I lost them.



I have no problem telling the people who matter to me how grateful I am for having them in my life, I tell them when they piss me off so why not the opposite lol
Sep 27, 2013 5:28 PM CST The Science of Happiness
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
Glatlol: I have no problem telling the people who matter to me how grateful I am for having them in my life, I tell them when they piss me off so why not the opposite lol


lol, yeah same laugh
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