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Oct 4, 2013 9:26 AM CST What is right and.....
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
Depends on what stage are we on the relationship. And depends on who can afford more than the other part...

I mean If I would have kept my job and my own apartment etc. , I would expect to pay 50% and 50% for shared holidays, or even more , because I have a daughter and I wasn't used to anyone pays her expenses in any way.

But now it's different...we're a family.

Anyways , If you are in a relationship it's natural stop thinking abt what's yours and mine and instead going for what WE have.

And I would wonder a lot if it hurts to share with that person...then... what it's my concept of being a 'couple' .
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Oct 4, 2013 9:30 AM CST What is right and.....
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
Antoniacv: Depends on what stage are we on the relationship. And depends on who can afford more than the other part...

I mean If I would have kept my job and my own apartment etc. , I would expect to pay 50% and 50% for shared holidays, or even more , because I have a daughter and I wasn't used to anyone pays her expenses in any way.

But now it's different...we're a family.

Anyways , If you are in a relationship it's natural stop thinking abt what's yours and mine and instead going for what WE have.

And I would wonder a lot if it hurts to share with that person...then... what it's my concept of being a 'couple' .
Cool postthumbs up I agree ...Its not a contestgrin
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Oct 4, 2013 11:31 AM CST What is right and.....
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
lovemedofr: « Il n’y a que deux sujets de chansons possibles : l’amour et Paris ! » George Gershwin


Nice statement but i can't help but feel that maybe George needed to get out a little more often wink wave
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Oct 6, 2013 6:10 AM CST What is right and.....
WhistlingDixie
WhistlingDixieWhistlingDixieTramping Round, Cumbria, England UK8 Threads 338 Posts
josingleinspain: What is not.....?

If you have been in a relationship for a year plus and you decide to go on holiday together. Would you expect your partner to pay for his/her ticket and expenses themselves??? What do you feel is the way to go????


That's easy that one ,
I would expect my partner to pay for themselves , gives her the feeling of independence ,
If also on Holiday and we needed to Hire a Car I would prefer if she did the driving , and if she did then also pay for the Hire as well , this would allow me to get Drunk and not pay extortionate Taxi Prices .
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