csw808OPNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK1 posts
I cant seem to find the right women they seem to say i really like you then in the next breath they say "but" or say they want see me again and never return my calls. I also seem to fall in love to easily building my hopes up to be broken down every time i dont delibratly go out to do this it just seems to happen im ot ignorant to a girls wishes or thoughts and i try to be the best i can it seems that im a falure in love can anybody help.
don't worry about she'll come along eventually it may just take longer then u thought..for all u know u could have already meet miss right and just don't know it yet
Maybe its a man thing,but if its of any help I know where you are coming from.Sorry I couldn't give a wise answer.I am not a at this kind of thing.All I can say is to do what I do and don't give up HOPE.
Slow, time, patience. If you push or rush it, you could be inadvertently pushing her away without even seeing it. Let things progress naturally, and see how things go. If you're thinking that things are too fast, they probably are. Open communication is a critical point, many have their relationships dissolve due to not being on the same page.
Keep the lines of communication open, communicate everything as you feel you can, and don't be evasive in topics of discussion. Doing so will give the impression that you're hiding something, even if you're not or don't mean to come off as doing so.
honestly, falling inlove easy is fine it just means you have a lot of love to offer. Just remember that they may not fall for you right away. Give them their space and let them call you every once in a while. Try to make yourself say what ever it's cool. Don't go straight for the commitment. Trust me you will be committed soon enough.
I don't think I could be of much help. I'm completely at a loss as to why people go against their word. I'd never tell a guy I wanted to see him again and then not return his calls. If it's any consolation, at least you know up front that she's a liar and you've probably been spared future grief from the bimbae.
Hey! We're all in the same boat. I wonder the same thing about guys. They do the exact same stuff. I guess when the one who's worth it comes along, we'll know.
I have to say I am not in that sinking boat they speek of.
Your 31 crying like you just lost your first girlfriend. Grow up. Building your hopes up? You need to build yourself up! You NEED a woman. Women smell needy! Needy is bad! What you need is some self respect. Grow a pair! Then you will smell of man. Women smell man! Man is good!
i can be honest but it is brutal: you are over anxious, desperate and deliberate. that isn't bad, it makes you "sweet" in their eyes,i know, i was the same. it is possible to be nice and caring, and also firm and disciplined.
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