kt1985 Forum Posts (25)

Mixed signals

should i really wait for him to do something about it?

Mixed signals

That was for the most part true. Except he was the one who suggested being friends first. This was like right after we went out. Then a week went by that we didn't talk at all. Then he sent me an email saying he felt a connection but he wasn't sure it was the kind he wanted, at least not now. My response was even if we're friends, friends talk and spend time together. Then he started texting my cell again. I said somethin about bein friends and his response was maybe more. Now he calls me most every other day, and texts me atleast once a day. We haven't really talked about our situation any more than we did then. Lotta friendly conversations. But he does call alot.

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So I made a comment today to him (in a text because i was in class) about valentines day coming up, and he replied "huh?" so I said it again and explained that it was also known as singles awareness day. His reply was "k". Should I have done that and what should I do now?

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LOL! You're right you did! But the more people point out the things that I said that make it seem like I just wanna be friends. The one time I did bring it up though. He was like "we'll see." I really like this guy and don't wanna mess anything up.

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Wow. I didn't even think about it bein me that's mixing the signals. Is it that neither of us really wanna be the one that brings up "more" with the possibility of getting shot down? When did it get this hard?

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He's divorced. So you guys think that I should ask him? V-day is comin around the corner isn't it....

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He's bein way more difficult to read than most guys LOL. Funny thing. We had a pretty good snow here last Wednesday. He called me on Thursday to make sure I was okay and wasn't stranded anywhere or didn't need anything. What was funny is that he lives like 45 minutes away from me, and that's when the roads aren't covered in ice or snow. It was really sweet, even though I would never have asked him to get somethin if i did need it.

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Don't think me askin for more will scare him away? Def don't wanna do that

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No not yet, but I told him that even if we're just friends we still gotta hang out and it doesn't even have to be a "date"

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Mutually agreed on the friends part, but he's the one that's suggested "maybe more"

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Me, holding out? Whadya mean?

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So it's been awhile since I looked for the wise counsel of the fabulous single people here. Thing is, this guy that I'm talkin to that I went out with once like 3 weeks ago still calls about every other day just to see what I'm doin, how I'm doin, if I need anything. Tells me what he's been up to,etc. We talked about just being friends for now, but he's kinda sendin me mixed signals. Cause every now and then he's like "maybe more" but we haven't gone out since that one time. We've had like a billion phone convos tho. I really like him, but don't think I should push the issue and lose him totally. What do you guys think of this? and you girls?

HELP!.....again

So, here I am back again lookin for some good advice. You all are great at that. Here's the thing, the guy I've been talkin to texts me alot (sometimes without me initiating it) and we talk on the phone alot still. Problem is every time I bring up us doing somethin he has some reason why he probably won't be able to. I told him I don't like being played and he said he didn't either because I said if he didn't wanna go out anymore don't lead me on. He said he wasn't. What is goin on?!

RE: When do you exchange phone numbers?

It's all about the comfort factor. If you didn't feel comfortable giving your number out, then there was probably somethin in the back of your mind telling you not to. Also, obviously, he wasn't worth the 40 minutes you gave him because he wasn't patient or understanding enough to wait for you to feel comfortable with him. It is a tad bit odd that you wanna meet before you give talk to him on the phone, but hey, to each her own! Good Luck!

now what?

Ok, so me and the guy met and had a great night. Then there was the part afterward where I'm driving home and wondering how it went. It started drivin me nuts wonderin if he was gonna call and stuff. Well he called this afternoon and we had a pretty good talk. Kinda like we were before we met. What I'm wondering is if this a good sign or not? Does it mean he just wants to be friends? Should I be the one to initiate another date?

When do we meet?

UPDATE! Ok guys. Here's what's goin on. Me and the guy I was talkin about in my original post are goin out tomorrow night!He asked me out earlier today! I really hope things go as well then as they do on the phone.Thanks for all your input. It helped alot!

When do we meet?

I've actually had a few dates that were at walmart. Just walkin around talkin. You can actually learn alot about somebody's likes and dislikes that way bc walmart has everything!

When do we meet?

Ok guys. Got one for ya. If I'm talkin to someone over the phone, when do I ask if we can meet? Or should I let him ask? Or should we talk on the phone a while before we meet? We're only like 30 mins away from each other. What do y'all think? Yeah, I said y'all...I'm such a redneck

RE: Are You Afraid To Fall In Love?

There's no greater feeling than being in love. But because of past experiences in relationships, I do want my heart to be more careful next time around. It hasn't worked yet. The heart is gonna fall where and when it will. We'd like to have control but we don't. So my mind is telling me to be afraid of it, but my heart is going to do what it wants. Stubborn little thing....

What's everyone doing tonight(New Year)?

Hey everybody! Just thought I'd see what everyone will be up to tonight. I myself will just be hangin out with some friends, havin a few, and listenin to them play some music. What about you?

RE: Why can't i find miss right

Hey! We're all in the same boat. I wonder the same thing about guys. They do the exact same stuff. I guess when the one who's worth it comes along, we'll know.

RE: Will you get drunk tomorrow night

Whether or not I'll be drunk is still up for grabs, but I will be at a friend of mine's house havin a few and listenin to em play music. So even if I do...it's a safe bet that I won't do anything stupid and my best friend won't let me drink and drive so all should be well! HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYBODY!!!!

RE: When do you know you are inlove? What are the signs for you?

Hey Angel!
I think falling IN love is something totally different than just loving someone. I know I've only been in love once. He consumed all of my thoughts no matter where he was and like you I was sure he was the one. Turns out, I think I was wrong. But I was so in love with him it was unbelievable. It was a wonderful feeling, one I wouldn't mind having again.

I'm new here, what's next?

Hey everybody! I'm glad I found this site. Everybody seems so cool and relaxed. I could fit in nicely here!!!

I'm new here, what's next?

Hi everybody! I'm new here and thought that introducing myself would be a pretty good idea. I'm looking for new ways to meet new people! How does this site work?