Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: Sometimes and sometimes not.but there are times if some people would so brave as to say to someones face what they say on here and most social sites.
I've got a CB radio and have heard my share of vocal challenges and sometimes wonder if they are supposed to be so brave would they actually talk like they do to someones face.
Some people are so brave on their mouthpeace or sitting behind a computer screen.
That is why I'm so straight forward:- I will tell u to ur face, everything I have to say about u, and most times, I would say nothing at all..... People r what they r, and u or anyone for that matter, can do Nothing about it, even if u try,,,,,,
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: I've always been pretty blunt and I don't pull any punches either.i have no problems telling people what I think and have offended someone at times but I'm just me myself and I.
I do pull my punches when I sense that someone is soft natured, as I tend to only go for the bullies, but I do tell the others off sometimes as well.....
I actually don't like hurting people at all, and will only complain about those that can handle it.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
jac_the_gripper: Maybe speaking one's mind in a way which feels safe and learning to deal with the consequences is useful practice for face to face interactions.
U appear to be, from experience here on Cs, very outspoken, and someone that talks behind people's backs, that u won't say to their faces....
U r a big part of one of the Cs biggest Cliques…...
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: Talking about bullies can't always be a pretty topic to discuss.
It is very amusing, since I think most of us had been bullied by them, and some turned out to be bullies themselves after, and others regarded them as they should be...….
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: Luckily for me after being bullied as a child by my classmates and two of my older siblings I never chose to bully anyone cause I know all to well from my own experiences throughout most of my life what that feels like.
Ur reaction to a bully, depends on how much power they wield in that particular situation, and how much power u award them over u.
A very important girl, in high school, used to put me down, up until she required my Accountancy book, for marks in the year. I gave her my answers, and that was the last of her bullying me.
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after reading a write up,
by their character traits.....
People interest u,
from their character traits....
People wish they had,
ur character traits.....
Can character traits be changed,
or r they like DNA....
U decide.....