nope, she should come if she chooses. I would always invite here. When your partner or you start doing things are your/their own i would start to wonder and think something is up with the relationship.
for me on this question i would say the only person you can CONTROL is your self
As well we all need time away to be with friends is there is insecurity there then that needs to addressed or if there it a falling away from each other then that should be addressed
I completely agree... Husband of 22 years started going out alot after about 18 years and kept telling me I "just wouldn't fit in with his friends..." Turns out he decided to be gay!!! We've been divorced for a long time now!!!!
No, seriously, I never was one to go out with the guys. And I never got into the 'male bonding' thing.
The woman who becomes my girlfriend will discover that some men have actually evolved beyond being a primate.
I imagine there would be times when we would want to go out separately with other friends. But only because one of us isn't interested in going (not because we aren't invited).
And, no, she wouldn't have to stay home if I went out alone. What do you think she is? A pet?
I can't even imagine having a girlfriend who would think that way.
Although, having said all that I do tend to be a homebody most of the time and I'd be highly attracted to a woman who feels the same way.
I really have no desire for a partner who needs to be running around socializing all the time. If that's her thing she'd be better off with someone else. Socializing just isn't important to me. It's rather stay home (with my partner) and enjoy doing things at home. I'm very creative and I'm into doing a lot of things. It's not like we'd be sitting around staring at that walls.
You know, I was one of those women before that HAD to stay home because of the kids while my ex went out...come to find out because he was seeing another woman on the side and she's married
My response to this is why would you want to go somewhere without your wife? (That is if you're married to the woman.) I'm not talking about going to the grocerie store either... I'm talking about having a night out with just your friends... I wouldn't want my wife going out to some place with "just the girls", unless it was something that was intended for females only, like a baby shower, etc.(I suppose it depends on the event) I mean I'm not going to a sewing party either and there is no reason for her not to go to something like that. You have to use common sense and treat each other with common respect.
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