an ethical question (35)

Jan 10, 2007 12:42 PM CST an ethical question
snowmouse
snowmousesnowmousewinnipeg, Manitoba Canada15 Threads 189 Posts
Your most best friend had passed away, you were there on thier deathbed, you were there for each other through the years good and bad and now they are gone........

a year later you recieve a box, in it, a manuscript, from your best friend that passed away.....

you read this manuscript, it is the best book you have ever read, you know it would be a best seller and know people would love this book........

in the letter from your best friend it says........this book is for you, i wrote with my heart and soul.......only for you, please do not publish it, enjoy it and know i love you.

what would you do, knowing it would benefit others, be a best seller and probably make you rich.......do you put it away or get it published?
Jan 10, 2007 1:40 PM CST an ethical question
foxyone1
foxyone1foxyone1Quesnel BC, British Columbia Canada50 Threads 1,772 Posts
Put it away,, as your best friend requested,, money is not everything and most certainly not worth going against what your best friend wants
Jan 10, 2007 1:45 PM CST an ethical question
Please do exactly what your friend says and honor her memory. She left you a beautiful treasure more precious than any money you will ever receive.
Jan 10, 2007 2:03 PM CST an ethical question
artgurl0927
artgurl0927artgurl0927Heart of the Valley, Canada12 Threads 2,442 Posts
I would treasure it as the friend requested....and put it away.
Jan 10, 2007 2:03 PM CST an ethical question
funloving
funlovingfunlovingwinnipeg, Manitoba Canada2 Threads 24 Posts
Respect your friends wishes and treasure it. Dee
Jan 10, 2007 2:03 PM CST an ethical question
chris93
chris93chris93essex, Ontario Canada17 Threads 55 Posts
put it away
Jan 10, 2007 2:41 PM CST an ethical question
Honeydipped06
Honeydipped06Honeydipped0627 Threads 304 Posts
publish it, she will feel completely differently about this now. she is happy now, and would want to share.

MMangel
Jan 10, 2007 2:44 PM CST an ethical question
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
seems like a trick question to me..if she shows the book to you, and it would benefit others i am wondering and would need to know more info before commenting further.
Jan 10, 2007 2:48 PM CST an ethical question
Honeydipped06
Honeydipped06Honeydipped0627 Threads 304 Posts
ohhh pucks you just have too many tricks up your sleeve.laugh

MM
Jan 10, 2007 2:49 PM CST an ethical question
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
wink no tricks...but my gut reaction is i dont know...need more input. i am analytical.
Jan 10, 2007 4:32 PM CST an ethical question
snowmouse
snowmousesnowmousewinnipeg, Manitoba Canada15 Threads 189 Posts
not a trick question pucks, this is purely hypothetical......your best friend left this treasure to you, and asked something specific, would you follow their wishes? or would you do something alternative?
Jan 10, 2007 4:39 PM CST an ethical question
tafini20
tafini20tafini20Toronto, Ontario Canada8 Threads 286 Posts
I would put it away with honour!
Jan 10, 2007 4:42 PM CST an ethical question
She will not be happy about that...her spirit need to be at peace.
Jan 10, 2007 4:43 PM CST an ethical question
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
well if it was my best friend and i was asked not too, i would do what was asked.
Jan 10, 2007 4:51 PM CST an ethical question
In real life you do exactly as the dearly departed requested in writing to do...to do otherwise may result in your friend appearing in your dreams, and asking you about the book...ha ha. Hypothetically, you are testing people to see if they really care about their friends after they are gone... scold scold scold
Jan 10, 2007 4:53 PM CST an ethical question
Spagooch
SpagoochSpagoochSt. Catharines, Canada21 Threads 387 Posts
I would have it published and donate all proceeds to a charity that focuses on research for the ailment that killed your friend.

Money well spent.
Jan 10, 2007 4:54 PM CST an ethical question
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
and what percentage would you keep for yourself? lol
Jan 10, 2007 4:57 PM CST an ethical question
That's what I would like to know too.
Jan 10, 2007 5:02 PM CST an ethical question
tunzrok
tunzroktunzroklondon, Ontario Canada900 Posts
I would honour your fiends wishes doing other wise is not respecting your fiends wishes It all about respect for your friend
Publishing it would be your wishes not the friends and I would consider a bit selfish to do so, regardless of what reason you had for publishing it
Jan 10, 2007 5:19 PM CST an ethical question
Honeydipped06
Honeydipped06Honeydipped0627 Threads 304 Posts
Hmm very different opinions here, but i still say publish it. her spirit is happy in heaven, and she would like to share it all now, and that was a good idea of giving all proceeds to what ailmemt killed her.


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