why do females get angry when a man tells her he's getting a paternity test? ( Archived) (13)

Feel guilt about what? Wanting the child to have a home, and sense of family? No, that is what kids have to have. You can only try, hon. If this is what you want, try. You do have a right to paternity testing.

If she was unfaithful she has not right to be angry, my ex partner was screwing behind my back but he had the CHEEK to say that I was the one who was unfaithful.

I dont agree with anyone who is unfaithful getting on their high horse, they want to be unfaithful they should be prepared for the fall out.

THere are many cases that I would agree that the man took the kids if they are his, if not then its up to the mother to find the real father (IF they know who it was).

Dont feel guilty about wanting to provide the kids a stable home, and love that you can give them. If they had stuck with the DUI, and stuck with all the other cases brought before them then more justice would be done.

ALright man here goes nothing.....I had the same thoughts myself when my first son was born his mom was the town WH*RE and i denied that he was mine up until the day he was born and as soon as i saw his face I knew deep in my heart that he was mine. You should be able to tell no matter what if that baby is yours. even if it doesnt look exactly like you, you should know, its nature. But If you have one doubt in your mind that it might not be yours. Do what would be best for you and the child. I dont care what the mom done to you. that baby deserves a dad and if you are the best that he has to a father then so be it. Thats just my opinion. I love kids and would take in anyones kids if i knew that i would have a greater impact on their life then their own parents.