I have not dated for almost 20 years and I do not even know where to start. I have been divorced for over 3 years and I am looking for a great friend to share my life with. My friend from work referred to CS to join in the fun of finding friends. I really want to find friends that want to share with me their good, bad and ugly times. I want a companion but I want to take it very slow. I have been in past relationships that have failed. Question - Is there every a PERFECT MATCH?
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Good luck and welcome. Perfect match is in the eye of the beholder. I think there are people who are more compatable than other couples, but does that necessarily make one happy? Just go into this with an open mind and you will be amazed how many people share your thoughts and ideas. Also, patience is good to have--it might take a while, but keep posting to the forums and hang in there.
The best way is to take it slow. The best way to go into it is if you start talking to someone, go into it with no expectations and let it take you where it leads you. If both feels that same passion and bond for each other after getting to know each other a while then that is a good sign that if anything you found a special friend...Good Luck!
I don't know if there is any such thing as a perfect match but you can find someone who is the right match for you. We are all human and thererfor flawed. Keep posting and have patience. There are so many wonderful people on here. I hope you find someone but even if you don't sit back and enjoy the ride. You're sure to walk away with wonderful friends. If you ever want to chat just contact me-no one can ever have enough friends.Good luck and welcome to cs.
I have patience because having three children, you have to. Even though they are grown and out of the house, I still miss them. Thanks for your advice.
Heh Welcome...hope you stick around....I've been here oft and on since last Spring...helps keep me on track....yeah and sometimes helps me get off the track!!!
Heh Welcome...hope you stick around....I've been here oft and on since last Spring...helps keep me on track....yeah and sometimes helps me get off the track!!!
Welcome, sweetie! Good to have you here. I'm not sure about the Perfect Match, but for those fortunate enough, I am sure its as near as damn it! But not just on here, anywhere in life. But don't focus just purely on that, enjoy - and make some fab friends here along the way.................. Look forward to your threads/posts. Dx.
Perfect match? Don't think so ... many possibilities though. Enjoy the process and make friends along the way...if one turns out to be more then that's a nice thing too!
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