How Does It Happen? (12)
I don't think one wakes up one day and suddenly doesn't give a f@#$ about the other person. I think it builds up to that in day to day circumstances. Alot of people will tolerate unhappiness until one day they cannot tolerate it any longer and then they get the courage to leave.
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People can fall out of love with ppl. I have done it and had it done to me. I think thats why we are all on a chase to find that everlasting love.
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I agree with Lion here. Sometimes people are trying to hold on to the good but finally the bad builds up so much that they snap.....it's not always the other person in the relationships fault....we arent all meant to be togethor romantically.
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I really don't understand how it can happen. Same thing happened to me. Basically he went to work came home and decided. What can you do but move on though
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A crock? No. I know plenty of people that have found it.
Hard to come by? Very.....but it is worth seeking isnt it?
Hard to come by? Very.....but it is worth seeking isnt it?
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I don't understand this either. my situation is totally different. it just doesn't make sense 
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Well, i think we all will find it eventually, I will never say i won't find it. I think the God has a plan for all of us. Maybe its not the romantic love we will get. Maybe its love from everything else(friends, family, and coworkers) we will get. I believe that we will all fall in love with the person we were meant to be with. Until then, i am waiting patiently. This is just my opinion wrong, right, or not even in the same ballpark. I think love will come when we all least expect it. You need to be more positive man, you will find it. 
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It wil find you i meant.
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Yeah I know. But it's just so difficult and hard to accept when you feel that you gave your all, ya know? You loved unconditionally and tried really hard to keep the communication and love interest there, and then suddenly one day the other person stops caring and they want to cut all ties. It's like you try to help someone hike up to the top of the hill and once you get near the top they fricken push you down to the bottom!
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I would like to share this poem with you.
After A While
(alternate title - Comes the Dawn)
After a while you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul,
and you learn that
love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't mean security,
and you begin to learn
that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises,
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up
and your eyes ahead,
with the grace of a woman,
not the grief of a child,
and you learn to build all of your roads
on today because tomorrow's ground
is too uncertain for plans,
and futures have a way of
falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn that
even sunshine burns
if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul,
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that
you really can endure...
That you really do have worth.
And you learn and you learn...
With every goodbye you learn.
by Veronica A. Shoffstall
After A While
(alternate title - Comes the Dawn)
After a while you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul,
and you learn that
love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't mean security,
and you begin to learn
that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises,
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up
and your eyes ahead,
with the grace of a woman,
not the grief of a child,
and you learn to build all of your roads
on today because tomorrow's ground
is too uncertain for plans,
and futures have a way of
falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn that
even sunshine burns
if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul,
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that
you really can endure...
That you really do have worth.
And you learn and you learn...
With every goodbye you learn.
by Veronica A. Shoffstall
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How the hell does that happen?