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RE: Freedom

Complete Freedom exist in Utopia. Everyone takes responsibility for themselves there. Everyone lives in love and shows compassion for each other. Everyone has healthy egos and there is no need for control.

"The one true Freedom that cannot be taken away is the Freedom to choose your own attitude in any given situation."

In reality the change we want to see in the world begins with each of us. Let it begin with me!

RE: Do you believe.....

“Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.”

And though it all... I have even more passion and compassion and I
believe in love.

What song expresses your mood today

Express yourself!

"The Impossible Dream"
from MAN OF LA MANCHA (1972)


To dream the impossible dream
To fight the unbeatable foe
To bear with unbearable sorrow
To run where the brave dare not go
To right the unrightable wrong
To love pure and chaste from afar
To try when your arms are too weary
To reach the unreachable star

This is my quest
To follow that star
No matter how hopeless
No matter how far

To fight for the right
Without question or pause
To be willing to march into Hell
For a heavenly cause

And I know if I'll only be true
To this glorious quest
That my heart will lie peaceful and calm
When I'm laid to my rest

And the world will be better for this
That one man, scorned and covered with scars
Still strove with his last ounce of courage
To reach the unreachable star

RE: what attraction makes u fall for someone?

Always nice to be in good company

RE: Ooops! Didn't Expect That

Judging people by appearance is just as shallow as judging them by color or race in my opinion. And I rated you a 10 on substance Joel right before I disabled it. There is so much more to a man or a woman than a nice pic. When I look in the mirrow I think about what I can change to make me a better person, that's where it all begins. And I have a 13 year old daughter and I teach her, you spend more time with yourself than anyone else so when you look in the mirrow know that you have done your best and been true to yourself. She is an intelligent girl who detest prejudice and is not shallow at all. She makes me proud.

Calling all Indians

I started this thread because of a political war that was going on in the forums at the time and it was fun and relaxing and I will still puff for peace. feeling happy!
still smiling

RE: The Unknown

mmmm, sounds passionate

RE: how do you like your meat

I like mine the same way...nice big round piece of hard meat. mmmm....good!

RE: If you had a d%&ck on your forhead

got ya!

RE: I wonder if we all copied my pic and all of us put it up on our profiles if.......

Wow you guys are hot....please don't say those are not your real pics.

RE: Self deception.

Thank you Ricky!

RE: Self deception.

Hank, I always enjoy your input. This is so true, it is an individual process. Actually, that is one of the slogans of the program...Awareness, Acceptance, Action. In the group I facilitate, we keep the focus on ourselves and speak of our own experience. I often speak of the importance of acceptance to me. If others learn anything from me, I feel happy for them but not responsible for them. I am responsible for myself but I do realize the importance of acceptance and that life is a gentle teacher and we will repeat our lessons until we accept whatever it is we are resisting. Acceptance is easier when we are gentle and compassionate with ourselves.

“We cannot change anything until we accept it. Condemnation does not liberate, it oppresses.”
~ Carl Gustav Jung

RE: Self deception.

Well, nobody's perfect are they? We all have had different experiences and maybe they do fear but all is not hopeless.

RE: Self deception.

Yes, that is exactly what it is. I entered this thread because I thought it was asking for ways of self-deception. Codependents are as illusive as the dependents about controlling others, fixing THEM, focusing on THEM, obcessing about THEM and not taking care of themselves.

RE: Self deception.

Or actually, I should say I am the owner of the group...I started it and moderate it.

RE: Self deception.

Really, I have a group for emotionally_abused_ women believe it or not, there are many women who believe they do not have choices. I do believe I have choices.

RE: If you were a CS emoticon, which one would you be....???

You know I was thinking when I made my user name that I could have my own logo....very fitting, I have been told!

RE: If you were a CS emoticon, which one would you be....???

RE: Self deception.

did I confuse you? It is deception. I had this debate with an intelligent man on here when I first come on about whether love is a choice...I believe it is. He said romantic love is not a choice but if it is not a choice how could a woman ever leave an abusive relationship?

RE: Self deception.

Love. love, everyone needs love. I love him and he doesn't treat me good. But I don't have a choice cos I love him.

RE: Love

Well ya know...I feel like I'm stalking you....your intellectual contact and humor is just so pleasing.

RE: The Illusion...

hmmm, interesting, but who can stand living in reality all the time, that would drive you insane.

“Reality is a nice place to visit, but I sure would not want to live there”

“Most of the images of reality on which we base our actions are really based on vicarious experience.”
Albert Bandura

RE: The Illusion...

Illusion is a neurotic way of trying to control...we all have to learn this way to LET GO! My favorite saying....

In the end what matters most is...

How well did you live
How well did you love
How well did you learn to let go

~Tibetan saying

RE: Songs You Like Part III

Does anyone know of or can help me find the lyrics to a song called Gravity and I don't know who it is by only that I loved it. I am pretty sure it is new. I heard it at my daughter's dance recital it was for a lyrical. I know some of the words are
"If I had you, I wouldn't even want you....gravity keeps pulling us apart."

RE: Songs You Like Part III

Elvis Presley

We're caught in a trap
I can't walk out
Because I love you too much baby

Why can't you see
What you're doing to me
When you don't believe a word I say?

We can't go on together
With suspicious minds
And we can't build our dreams
On suspicious minds

So, if an old friend I know
Drops by to say hello
Would I still see suspicion in your eyes?

Here we go again
Asking where I've been
You can't see these tears are real
I'm crying

We can't go on together
With suspicious minds
And be can't build our dreams
On suspicious minds

Oh let our love survive
Or dry the tears from your eyes
Let's don't let a good thing die

When honey, you know
I've never lied to you
Mmm yeah, yeah

RE: why do guys go for looks rather personality?

I think it all comes down to chemistry and in order for me to feel chemistry there needs to be some physical attraction. I want someone with a nice and interesting personality too. If I was only 75% attracted physically and they had a great personality, I could work with that...but if I am only 15% attracted physically adn they had a great personality...we can be friends.

RE: Dear Dave`s Problem Page..........

Dear Dave,

I hust wanted to thank you and your assistand Emma for the good advice you gave me. I listened to your advice and spoke to him quick and straight forward. I think he really appreciates that and likes the idea of having me for a friend...a real and honest friend...not a friend who is leading him on.

Signed,
It's all about Chemistry

RE: People of CS....Show Khan some love..... ;0(

No, I prefer honesty.

RE: People of CS....Show Khan some love..... ;0(

Thank you...that felt nice.

RE: People of CS....Show Khan some love..... ;0(

Khan, you are adorable and I just read your profile...you seem like a nice, fun, and interesting young man.