If I could be you, if you could be me For just one hour, if we could find a way To get inside each other's mind If you could see you through my eyes Instead your own ego I believe you'd be I believe you'd be surprised to see That you've been blind
I have a cat when she was a kitten she was so fragile and delicate I wanted to give her a name that fit so I named her Tabitha. She turned out to be a witch and her nickname is Tabby. But I love her anyway.
Frued says that the id consists of our desires and the super ego consists of moral judgements. They often conflict, but we are human and we do have desires and judging others does not make you any more healthier. People need to focus on them selves and their own neurotic tendacies.
Are you fickeled? Your post on love and romance have always been so positive. Just accept whatever it is that is upsetting your ego, don't resist, feel your feelings and release them and you will feel better.
Well you may be wrong, I know someone who graduated from The University of Boston with a Master's degree in psychology and she says that if we have a "healty" ego we have worked through our neurotic conflicts. Ego is not "only" self-centered it can be "healthy." It may take a few life times to get there for some, but it is possible and some people do have "healthy" egos.
Well I am not reading the other threads and I find this one interesting. My ego says for you not to disturb the free exchange of ideas in this thread. Ofcourse, I don't have to say anything but my ego is not healthy.
I don't know if they could reach Nirvana and struggle with relationship issues too...just my opinion. But it is a loving open- minded belief system to practice even if you never reach Nirvana.
easy solutions are a joke but this is one...practice Buddism. But they are not free thinkers, are they? A free thinker believes in no higher authority. Buddist believe in transcending but do they believe in a higher authority?
I think a healthy ego is a requirement, meaning no walls or defenses, or neurotic tendacies which we all seem to have and I also believe that love is a choice or based on free will.
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from me too.
RE: Say something special to the person you like, no need to mention their name :)
If I could be you, if you could be meFor just one hour, if we could find a way
To get inside each other's mind
If you could see you through my eyes
Instead your own ego I believe you'd be
I believe you'd be surprised to see
That you've been blind