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RE: Older women dating younger men

Why haven't you had the opportunity?

RE: Older women dating younger men

are you sure....you don't now me now! But I did date one and we were very compatible...so I agree.

RE: Older women dating younger men

double standards and a bit of an ego problem

RE: For those on CS without a photo, whom do you most want to expose themselves.

I would be curious to see what fungunwithbrain looks like...he has an attractive personality... I like them fun guys with brains.

RE: Older women dating younger men

I say too bad you live in England...I would love to go to dinner and dancing with you.

RE: Older women dating younger men

you bet what?

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”
skrehmani Neil Gaiman

I am shallow sometimes and I even feel this way about love sometimes but not all the time...just when I am in resistance and not accepting others and allowing them the freedom to think, feel, and live differently than I do. Actually, I believe that love teaches us lessons.

And you may ask why we choose to believe in a God or a Higher Power and when I answer it helps us learn life lessons and have more peace, you say that is off topic...but that is the reason I choose to believe...one of the hardest lessons for me to learn, but keeps me evolving....is acceptance and to let go.

In the end what really matters is...

how well did you love?
how well did you live?
how well did you learn to let go?

Tibetan Saying

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

Yeah, I forgot what you were asking...but I think it was... does anyone want to stroke my ego? Nah, some of us ignorant people are happy learning not to let our own ego's rule us so we humble ourselves to something you don't understand. And why do I humble myself....it helps me to free my mind and not be so shallow.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

Oh, well...to each his own right? I am evolving on my spirtual path cos I have had some some positive experiences with it.
I don't like anyone to try to conform me and I won't try to conform anyone else. It works better that way. But I have listened when it hasn't been forced down my throat and I will say that some get some strange interpretations from the Bible and I can see when people's actions dont' match their words. But some get some very loving values that I respect and admire them for. That is all that matters to me, what kind of person we are and if we are improving..evolving..becoming better people...no matter how we choose to do it. And I think I hear that in rillyniceguys words also. You must have a way of striving to be a better person also even if it is all based on logic...but it can't be all based on logic because we are emotional beings also. I believe our emotions have a bigger impact on transforming us than our intelligence does...IMO and what I have learned from psychology.

RE: OK who wants an indian Name

mech, I would like an Indian name too. I am sooo curious as to what you will come up with.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

But religion does not vs. common sense...I know for a fact that rillyniceguy has excellent commnon sense and is a very intelligent man on many topics so your theory is sorry to be the one to tell ya! but I'm glad you do have common sense also....most of us do, nomatter what our beliefs.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

We all have different paths but many times we do end up with the same truths....to be honest I am just coming to the realization in a different way than you have of the importance of forgiveness.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

But we are all so different and I really don't like the concept of perfection cos it is a waste of energy for anyone to try to attain it or the need for superiority but to continue on some path to be a better person today than we were yesterday.
We all have room for improvement and there are many ways to seek improvement.

But I just have to say that the marine in that story was sentenced to 2 weeks in jail and was given unlimited, anytime call time to God.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

There is but One God, His name is Truth, He is the Creator, He fears none, he is without hate, He never dies, He is beyond the cycle of births and death, He is self illuminated, He is realized by the kindness of the True Guru. He was True in the beginning, He was True when the ages commenced and has ever been True, He is also True now.”



A person experiences life as something separated from the rest - a kind of optical delusion of consciousness. Our task must be to free ourselves from this self-imposed prison, and through compassion, to find the reality of Oneness.”

Albert Einstein

Freedom is the will to be responsible for oneself

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

And again, since there is no absolute truth only relative truth there is a God.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

yes, he is gay, he is black, she is a woman, it is energy, it is love.


Peace, Love & Light to you

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

well, you seemed to skip over your own subject... science, which says....

"In science, doubt has been cast on the notion of absolutes by theories such as relativity and quantum mechanics. Attempts to tie together all the known facts about the universe into a single unified theory (one example is string theory) could be seen as efforts to discover absolute truth about this set of facts. "

Science has not proven that there is no God and there is no absolute truth...so if we who feel intutively that a God exist want to believe on faith we are the majority and so the relative truth is that it is accepted there is a God. If you choose otherwise we give you your freedom. And if that makes you people who do not believe in God think you have superior knowledge and can call others ignorant, that is pretty sad cos you can't prove anything.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

Okay, I think this is interesting for you...

1) In philosophy, absolute truth generally states what is essential rather than superficial - a description of the Ideal (to use Plato's concept) rather than the merely "real" (which Plato sees as a shadow of the Ideal). Among some religious groups this term is used to describe the source of or authority for a given faith or set of beliefs, such as the Bible.

2) In science, doubt has been cast on the notion of absolutes by theories such as relativity and quantum mechanics. Attempts to tie together all the known facts about the universe into a single unified theory (one example is string theory) could be seen as efforts to discover absolute truth about this set of facts.

3) In pure mathematics, however, there is said to be a proof for the existence of absolute truth. A common tactic in mathematical proofs is the use of reductio ad absurdum, in which the statement to be proved is denied as a premise, and then that premise is shown to lead to a contradiction. When it can be demonstrated that the negation of a statement leads to a contradiction, then the original statement is proved true.

The logical proof of the statement, "There exists an absolute truth," is almost trivial in its simplicity. Suppose we assert the negation of the statement, that is, that there is no such thing as absolute truth. By making that assertion, we claim that the sentence "There exists no absolute truth" is absolutely true. The statement is self-contradictory, so its negation, "There exists an absolute truth," is true.

This proof applies only to logic. It does not tell us whether any particular statement other than itself is true. It does not prove the existence (or non-existence) of God, the devil, heaven, hell, or little green people from another galaxy. Neither does it assert that we can always ascertain the truth or falsity of any arbitrary statement. The Incompleteness Theorem, proved by Kurt Gödel and published in 1931, actually showed that there exist logical statements whose truth value is undecidable, that is, they cannot be proved either true or false.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

yes it does

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

Well haven't you figured out that there is no absolute truth...it is all relative. Guess you're just one of us ignorant folks.

RE: Which would you follow - your head or your heart?

Well, I realize that they often conflict but I think it is wiser to follow my head and not my emotions.

RE: man size

true, this is our nature

RE: man size

Well this guy he is too young for me...but i find his handsome looks and mostly his intelligence to be a big turn on.

RE: man size

of course it matters, well it is not the only thing that matters but my peronsal pleasurable prefrence is big...not too big, just big.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

No, just a hotline to you...You are questioning and doubting something....Why? I don't understand why some people even question what they really have no belief in. I don't question ghosts or UFO's. Now if I had some intuition that they might exist, I might question. Get it?

And sometimes people sound angry at what goes on in the world ....why are they are angry...cos evolution is too slow for them? Maybe, when they realize that thier last true Freedom is the ability to choose thier attitude in any situation, they wouldn't be so angry. Some of us learn this on our paths to enlightment.

And I am glad I keep you amused funguywithbrain...I do like for people to laugh and be happy...really, I do...I love to laugh and be happy.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

It is really okay if you don't believe in God, I for one will not try to convince you otherwise but just remember God never rejects you of guidance, wisdom and love, it is you who reject God or the Universe...whatever your understanding is.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

No, actually I rejected my families religion...they all believe in the Bible. I am spiritual because I feel that God is energy and love is energy and we are all energy and love but some people never accept the love that is in them. And I don't claim to have all the answers...I just believe cos I choose to and it is helpful to me. And believe it or not many Scientist believe in God.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

Frued would not accept the concept of God but Jung who studied with him did. Jung did not in his younger life but when his wife was dying he came to believe.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

I will argue politics but not religion. I believe because I choose to. I don't know if this is the appropriate response to this thread...like I need an explaination. I don't owe anyone an explaination and I won't give one. And I won't try to conform you or anyone to believe the way I do. It is a personal choice that we all make. I don't believe in the Bible literally either but I would never try to take a person's faith from them.

RE: Religion vs. Common Sense

It's good for the spirit...it is good to think we are all one and not seperate and we are reflections of each other. I believe God is the energy that connects us all.