Right, but once someone makes the change it's no longer considered a long distance relationship. So if you're asking "Can Long Distance Relationships Work In The Short Term?" Sure! Absolutely. But can they go forever? That I highly doubt. And even if you could make it last.. why would you choose such an unhealthy relationship?
The truth is it's 2007 and women are much more independant and liberated. Most them don't need a man to help define who they are anymore, and they sure as hell don't need us to open doors for them anymore. So don't believe the hype, fellas. It's all just BS.
Rule Number 1 when looking for a woman... NEVER seek advice from other females. Unless she's a lesbian.
Trust me on that one.
What Random Stranger mentioned about "playing the game" was pretty much correct. Not so much "mind games," but rather just "the game of love." You gotta be able to challenge them in some way *keep them on their toes* and keep her frequently guessing *a little mystery* otherwise she's going to lose interest and then C'est La Vie.
It's just the way it is.
And honestly a lot of us guys are like that, too. As soon as we really get to know a woman and think that we know everthing there is to know about her and basically have her wrapped around our finger or eating right from out of our hand, she suddenly becomes less appealing and we'll start looking around for someone else.
It's called boredom. And it's boredom that kills roughly 99.9 percent of relationships.
Ain't nobody whining. I'm on a few other sites and I actually do alright there. So if this one continues to be the flake it only makes sense to brush it off.
Well, seeing that I've been on this site since Late December/Early January and not met a single soul, I think I'm going to give it one last week before I finally decide to close my account here on CS.
Unfortunately, I did like chatting on the forums with some of you.. which is why I figured that I'd at least say goodbye before leaving, as well as say thank you to those "who were there" and on here back in late December when my girlfriend and I broke up and I desperately needed kind words or a laugh to help me get through the day. Thanks again, even if you're not quite sure who you are.
I hope you all find happiness soon, or in the not-so-distant future.
Shoot, it don't take much to get me to go down on a woman (of interest). Usually, I tell her that I like to do that/want to do that and they either hesitate or just say no.
The good news is that after awhile the rejection doesn't hurt as much. You get so used to getting stomped on that it becomes almost second-nature to you.
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RE: Where have all the good men gone?
Jeez, how many threads have we seen like this?