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vicky_earpstaffordshire, Staffordshire, England UK2 Threads 23 Postshow to start over after having your heart broken i was married for three years only for the man in my life never to come home not see his child and has not even contacted us im so lonely and hurt it has beed three months but feels like it only just happened any advise out hear
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You'll just have to ride the emotional storm out. I hope if he ever does want to come back that you send him away, no one that truly loves you would ever do that. I guess all you can do is assume the single parent role and move on. I personally would divorce him and be done with him. Go forward and don't look back...Best Wishes..
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Hon, you are not the first for this to have happened to. My nieghbor's daughter was married for a few years, her husband took off. Just up and left took nothing, never went to his job, or contacted her. She lived her live in limbo, hoping each day he would come home or she would have word of him being alive or dead. He came back 5 years later, wanting her, acted like nothing happened. No explanation of why or where he went, just said he couldn't handle the stress at the time. She was so in love with the guy, she took him back, only to later divorce him, because he was not the man she married.
My advise is just move on, find you someone else!
My advise is just move on, find you someone else!
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simply keep your chin up and move on!
its hard but things will get better!
its hard but things will get better!
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I went through the same thing, my husband walked out went to work and never came back after nine years of marriage.I am fairly new to this site and I have found there are nice people out there. dont give up I know the feeling but I am starting to get my life back on track after six months, you will get stronger belive me, good luck.
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My ex didn't contact his kids for 9 months until he learned he had to pay child support. He cared more about his live in girlfriend's kids. It made me feel like his own kids weren't worth anything because "I" was their mother. He found out he had to pay child support and after nine months calls our daughter and tells her he is going to take her and her brothers to Illinois. 
I think everyone would of been alot better had he just vanished into oblivion.
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thank you its is hard it has been nearly four months and it still hurts but i have to move on for my kids their is no point in hurting what is done is done thank u for replying
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Vicky, it's ok to hurt. You have to grieve the death of a relationship, the death of your dreams you had with him. You can't move on till you put it behind you. If you jump into another relationship too soon just because you're lonely, you will bring all that hurt into it, and it will be doomed from the start. Use this time to find yourself, who you are alone, take care of yourself and your kids, find the happiness that no one can take away from you in your own heart. Big hugs sweetie, you're stronger than you know.
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thank you i hope it gets better i hate feeling like this 
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I stand by my tried and true statement....
The best way to get over an old love(r)....
Is to get under a new one......
The best way to get over an old love(r)....
Is to get under a new one......
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hi thankx for replying snap mine is the same child support shocked him he blamed me if you go on income support u have to tell them or u get no money wy is it that they can move on so fast vicky
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thankyou it does feel like a death it hurts all the lies he was not the man i married so better off apart lust think he could of done it not so hard with no care for anyone i will take this time to find me vicky x
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I know what you are feeling now is so painful that words seems impossible to help.
But you will get over it, just try and stay positive for next minute and the next.
Only time can heal a broken heart, but if it helps just know that there are a lot of people right now that is trying to mend a sad heart.
Just remember! “Stay positive by the minutes” it will all be just a memory one day.
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so sorry about your pain. Time will heal and you can make time go faster by concentrating on your children instead of the hurt feelings. Good luck to you!
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