healing a broken heart (13)

how is it that you find someone who you think is perfect then he goes a dumps you. over msn no less i mean really urg

It means he is a coward and that you deserve much better than that!

an immature man with no class. Time will heal. Try and keep busy and forget that mean man.

Hi there..I had that happen to me this summer .I met a man through a friend , he was crazy about me .After a time I started to like him and then he was gone..I looked it up and read a book called He Is Scared She is Scared and there I found him..FEAR OF COMMIING was my answer... I hope this will help you ..good luck

Sorry you are hurting hon. I tend to be very philosophical about such things and have to believe that you got what you needed from each other and that you needed to part ways to go where you are meant to go next. I wish you peace and light on your journey.

I agree though, there are better ways than msn !

nothing new my love.......it's happened to a whole heap of us so you aren't alone.........

me personally, I met someone on line in the spring of 2005.........he lived in MOntreal....we talked over the phone, msn, and even sent each other kisses over webcam........everything was fantastic, it was a daily thing......(FYI: my phone bill was roughly $200.00 A MONTH, cell and home).........finally flew over there about 4 months into the "relationship" , weekend was great, felt like we knew each other forever.....came back, he planned to come down 2 weeks later...he wanted me to sell everything and move there.....I said no, not now but maybe the next year....
he didn't like that answer and so, pretty much called it quits......yeah, I hurt a bit cause I ALLOWED myself to get hurt but now, looking back in hindsight, he wanted me to forget I even had a life in Toronto and start fresh there......as a full time mom for his daughter........problem was, I wasn't gonna bow to his demands

he did me a favor.........and I am sure this guy did you one too!

Don't have any regrets......what doesn't kill you WILL make you stronger........

chin up ! things will MOST DEFINATELY get better

donna ive heard that expression before, "I hurt a bit cause I ALLOWED myself to get hurt " what does that mean exactly. how do you allow or not allow yourself to get hurt. i really cant see it possible for a person not to allow themselves to get hurt.

MM

hey MM
well, in my case, I always take things and situations to a higher level ..... I anticipated something wonderful from this and it never surpassed....

I let myself get hurt cause I expected a lot more.....

thus the reason for my motto for the last little while....

Great expectations give you great disappointments and with that, hurt....

I don't expect (or at least TRY to) and therefore, I am not disappointed....

it makes sense.......at least to me it does....

i agree with donna to a point..

we can only be hurt if we set ourselves to be..

and it is our expectations of others that does it.

can happen to anyone in any relationship..

hope i've learned my lesson !!!

is a dastardly one.