Thanks L....I appreciate it...I do love Clayton..and know he loves me in return....I have always been the first to bolt from the minute the "L" word makes an appearance...
But he has been patient and encouraging to me...and in doing so has only caused my love and respect for him to grow that much more...
Not only does he love and respect my wishes in return...his understanding goes beyond our "own" needs to that of my children and current lifestyle...he is tolerant and giving and conducts himself as a man should....knowing that I have responsibilities that all my love for him cannot make me walk out on...but still willing to wait...what else could i have asked for...
FB, Go for it girl, if i got the invite i would go.
I am kinda going thru the same thing. i like this girl, am attracted to her but dont want to scare her. So, i am just going to hang out when we can, be a friend and see if we click more.
I am feeling cold and would love to have a nice hot bath except we have no hot water for the day. They are switching the hot water Tanks today and switching companies so won't have hot water back till later this evening or tomorrow sometime.
Oh well if I survived 8 days with no hot water during the holidays what is one more day LOL
It's bitter cold outside! But Im inside were it is nice and warm. 2 friends I havn't seen in over a year came to visit
F~Brunette YOu cAnt live in a fairytail world and let your imagination get the best of you. Sort out what is real and what u want to be real. Enjoy the time you spend with him as you obviously do. The more your relationship grows with him the more time the 2 of you will share. Like you said it wont kill you... And perhaps you assume to much. My worrie would be that your talking your self out of it out of trying You only just met the fellow, he has a right to get to know you slowly also. You 2 are just getting to know each other have dinner with him. Like the other post said he has a daughter to think about also.
FB you will never know till you try. Just have no expectations and go in with two feet and enjoy the time getting to know him. The best relationships always start off as being best friends first!
I am tired although I know I won't sleep even if I try, which also makes me frustrated!
I am stressed because my ex keeps calling & giving me guilt trips but I think he is finally starting to get the hint... and I would just ignore his calls if it wasn't for the fact that he is currently in jail and it comes up *unknown* on the call display and I have a couple other people that I can't miss calls from that comes up the same way... grrr
Do you have voice mail? That way if you do and you don't answer maybe those who wish to get to you can leave a message?
Can you also record his phone calls so that way you have a log and can use it against him? Especialy where he is in Jail right now and the fact he is giving you a hard time won't make him look good either.
But do not ever let a few negative people get to you. You are in control of yourself not them and you should know better than to let them bring you down.
So chin up buttercup and believe it or not there are good people out there!
Hey Fbrunette!! Just to let you know something ...one of my friends went to a bar one year ago ,met this wonderful guy...super nice,get to know each other for a year and guess what...they move in together in December and they will be getting a house very soon......... All that love it make me feel all squishy inside...that's why don't lose hope and try it ...not all man wants you know what.....look at my friend and believe me she is very happy now.....I guess you can find love in strange places!!! so I decide myself I better start going out with my friends more often to the bar and maybe learn to drink one of two coolers...so maybe I can find someone like my friend.... ........ best of luck in your date!
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But he has been patient and encouraging to me...and in doing so has only caused my love and respect for him to grow that much more...
Not only does he love and respect my wishes in return...his understanding goes beyond our "own" needs to that of my children and current lifestyle...he is tolerant and giving and conducts himself as a man should....knowing that I have responsibilities that all my love for him cannot make me walk out on...but still willing to wait...what else could i have asked for...