I just have one Small Question for you all (15)
amanwithadestinyeureka, USA7 Threads 30 PostsWHy do they say if you give up thats when love finds you because from where I am sitting it didnt make it better it made it wrose I wasnt born for this, And people always ask me why i want to Settle down with someone right now its because I dont want to meet someone when I'm 50 and end up dying when im 59 or 60 i want to find someone and get to share the time I have left on this earth with is that wrong to want JW.
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No it is not wrong that you feel the way you do. Sometimes we just can't have what we want most "yesterday". I can attest to the fact that it does happen when you are not looking or looking too hard! I can also attest to the fact that nothing good comes easy. 
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I would seriously like to answer this thread, but I cant make out what you are saying.
With no punctuation, it is almost impossible to make head nor tail of what points you are trying to make!
I guess, I am just a grumpy sod tonight! Sorry!!
With no punctuation, it is almost impossible to make head nor tail of what points you are trying to make!
I guess, I am just a grumpy sod tonight! Sorry!!
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nothing wrong with wanting to find someone when your young to spend your life with..
and like they said.. it does usually find you when your not looking for it.. but you have to pay attention so you dont miss out when it finds you .. and nothing good comes easy .. takes hard work to get and keep what or who you want
and like they said.. it does usually find you when your not looking for it.. but you have to pay attention so you dont miss out when it finds you .. and nothing good comes easy .. takes hard work to get and keep what or who you want
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Does someone need a huggy?
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I`ll take one or maybe two. 
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you people are silly and right now I'm giving someone a chance, but when you have been hurt as much as I have its hard because you always wonder if their going to hurt you As the last person did thats why I made this poem.Can they see my pain
A shattered soul and in a world of pain,
Where people don't believe,
He's tried to love so many times,
But all they did was leave,
Will the past come back again,
He asks himself each day,
All he can hear is the crying inside,
That always gets in the way,
He feels the pain deeper then most,
And can't face it alone,
He hides it deep inside of him,
And will not let it be shown,
He's trying to fight a battle,
That he knows he will not win,
The wounds are deep inside his heart,
Will he get hurt again?
So all of you who read this,
And feel the same as I,
Don't hold it deep inside of you,
Just close your eyes and cry.
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Can they see my pain is the name of it.
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hmm you ask for advice then say we are silly..
most the ppl here have been hurt many times in the past.. its not just you ..
but you have to realize not everyone is going to hurt you .. if you go into a relationship thinking that you will be hurt.. then at some point its going to happen
most the ppl here have been hurt many times in the past.. its not just you ..
but you have to realize not everyone is going to hurt you .. if you go into a relationship thinking that you will be hurt.. then at some point its going to happen
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Your profile reads like you want a fairytale character, rather than a real partner...or a mother.
It is painful to invest so much of yourself into someone else, and a relationship. Personally I dont feel the need to hand over my soul to another for them to be responsible for...the obligations of it all is too much for anyone...move on slowly...you are, as you say, so deeply wounded by failed relationships...take this time to understand why you are needing to be with someone, when you have no trust...and then take a little more time.
It is painful to invest so much of yourself into someone else, and a relationship. Personally I dont feel the need to hand over my soul to another for them to be responsible for...the obligations of it all is too much for anyone...move on slowly...you are, as you say, so deeply wounded by failed relationships...take this time to understand why you are needing to be with someone, when you have no trust...and then take a little more time.
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I have to agree its worse then my threads
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You never give up.If you have ever been hurt in the past thats the past time to move on and keep trying.And as far as meeting someone at 50 or 60 guess what buddy people are living much longer now I don't think death is what you need to worry about now.
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I think it means if you limit yourself to only looking for "love" you miss so many more good things, freinds possible a ally, and the moments shared with new freinds can develope into the "love" you are so diligently seeking.
Do not limit your search to only "Love interests"/LTR ... it takes aways from your attraction by others.
To say i only want one thing is a limtied veiw to any problem or dilemma open your heart to freindship and accquaintances who knows they may be the path to finding what it is you want.
thats just my opinion.
Do not limit your search to only "Love interests"/LTR ... it takes aways from your attraction by others.
To say i only want one thing is a limtied veiw to any problem or dilemma open your heart to freindship and accquaintances who knows they may be the path to finding what it is you want.
thats just my opinion.
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that was awesomely said. kudos to you firelighter.
your poem suggest that you bring your fears and pain of failed pasts in the new ones with you. therin lies a very big problem. you have to let those fears and hurts go. you must. it keeps you from truly enjoying what may have been right in front of you all the time. comparing the past loves and actions to that of a new love will almost undoubtably bring about unrest in a new relationship. fear makes us act less than who we really are. it contaminates our own hearts and the hearts of others. take it easy hon. relax and enjoy life, whether it be while you are young or 50. love counts at all ages. hugs, and good luck.
kat 
your poem suggest that you bring your fears and pain of failed pasts in the new ones with you. therin lies a very big problem. you have to let those fears and hurts go. you must. it keeps you from truly enjoying what may have been right in front of you all the time. comparing the past loves and actions to that of a new love will almost undoubtably bring about unrest in a new relationship. fear makes us act less than who we really are. it contaminates our own hearts and the hearts of others. take it easy hon. relax and enjoy life, whether it be while you are young or 50. love counts at all ages. hugs, and good luck.
kat
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