It seems to me I always pick the cuteset guy to meet. Oh and did I mention usually the furthest away from where I live, just to make things more difficult. Oh and I do have something for younger guys.I appear younger so that is a part of why. The latest pic I was attracted to lives in the UK-"What the heck am I thinking". Have you ever just seen a face and ohhhh! Like a school girl crush, well, that would be me! Help! I'm a hopeless!
START FOCUSING ON WHAT'S AVAILIABLE AND WHAT YOU CAN BOTH OFFER TO EACH OTHER, UNLESS DEEP-DOWN INSIDE YOU ARE AFRAID THAT YOU ARE IMPOSSIBLE TO PLEASE, THEREFORE YOU PICK SOMETHING UNATAINNABLE SO YOU DONT FEEL THE DISAPPOINTMENT THAT CAN COME FROM A FAILED RELATIONSHIP. IF THE GUY IS HALF-WAY DECENT THE MORE YOU FOCUS ON HIM THE MORE HE WILL FOCUS ON YOUR DREAMS AND DESIRES. HAVE YOU READ THE BOOK "SHEET MUSIC"? ITS ON POINT. DONT "GIVE UP" OR "SETTLE" BUT DO MAKE SURE YOUR BEING REALISTIC; ARE YOU GOING TO BE HAPPIER SINGLE AND ALWAYS SEARCHING FOR "MR. PERFECT" OR BEING "MRS. CLOSE ENOUGH TO PERFECT"?
I think maybe it is human nature to want what we can't have. The more unassessible something is the more curious we become. Sometimes we learn and sometimes we don't. In the case of distance, you always wonder what it would be like if you were closer and can get yourself to imagine alot of fairy tale things. If both aren't willing to pursue than the best you can be is friends and usually people just fade away after awhile. Some people feel safer going after what they can't have because they either feel inadequate or deep down inside they really don't want to be tied down to anyone. Someday hopefully you'll be able to have what we want and feel like our cup runneth over.
Its human nature to want for what you can't have! The 7 th sin avarice LUST! you lust for everything and maybe you'll get something you actually are happy with! Until your next lust! without lust you would never want anything even the things you can have! The world would come to a stand still without it! Once you got something! do you stagnate with it become bored and stale! yes most people do! Why because they have been programed from birth to buy spend sell, get a partner have some kids to repeat this for the higher ups at the top to keep there worlwide marketplace going!
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