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I met someone on another site and we started chatting simply because he grew up where I live. Long story short over the last few weeks we have been texting and chatting on Yahoo. One night when I was in Edmonton we finally got a chance to meet in person - briefly, then a few days later he came out to my place and we hung out watching a movie etc.
I have very few friends where I live and I tend to make friends easier with males than I do females so I was happy to have a new friend to talk to who has also been through a lot of similar crap in life (even though there is a decent age difference between us).
Well we were supposed to get together this weekend and I really don't know if it was something I said or what, but he got his "knickers in a knot" and spazzed out about something and cancelled our plans...
So rather than beating a dead horse I simply sent a text apologizing for whatever upset him and that I won't be contacting him again unless he contacts me first. I have yet to hear back from him... whatever I guess.
I know that over the last 10years I have been a hermit basically, my ex did all kinds of things and I was constantly left to tend the kids and pick up after him - this has left me in such a state of insecurity about myself, my life, my feelings etc. Until tonight though I just did not realize how bad a state that I am in.
Sorry for venting but I needed to get it off my chest.