Still Got a Smile on My Face (30)
Nah, i never brag, lol. Gotta keep that stuff quiet or the ladies will never give it up.
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Smart man, you surprise, didn't know there were too many of those.
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Mind over matter
Count your blessings
and neither of them works, I do a little therapeutic shopping
Count your blessings
and neither of them works, I do a little therapeutic shopping
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Awesome answer, I agree to do it anyway, i like that lee.
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Ruts can be very hard to pull oneself out of...but then there is a day or moment that will finally make you pull yourself up by the bootstrap, and do what you need to do...you're a survivor and will continue to be....
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Heya stew...
I get in ruts, too...depth depends on the whys...
Sometimes I just don't struggle with it...and, let what be will.
Other times, I have to get up, get a change of scenery... Can be something simple...
Usually take a week or two to change a habit of some kind...
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peas in a pod
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hiya nene, i agree with you a change of scenery just may be what i need.
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hey pretty lady, thanks for the input.
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Listen to her Stew.
She's one smart PickleHead!
She's one smart PickleHead!
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Probably depends on the rut. Determination helps, followed by biting the bullet, most of my ruts are created by fear.
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thanks guys
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Your "rut" is nothing more than a mind-set.
You are in your rut.
You imagine your rut is made of thick sticky mud.
The walls are high. You imagine climbing these walls as a difficult task. The more you climb to get out...the more the walls crumble. Everytime you dig harder to get out, the more planted you become.
Often we create mind-sets that are hard to break. We form patterns and images in our mind. This imagery we create can be both good & evil.
Try creating a new image. Easier said than done. Imagine yourself on solid ground, perhaps made of stone. Think of your problems more of a mountain. A solid mass. Imagine you must climb this mountain, the top is far but your feet are steady. You will not sink, you will not falter. The mission will be hard, but not impossible.
Sometimes you can change your perspective with out actually changing your physical scenery.
Just my thoughts!
Katie
You are in your rut.
You imagine your rut is made of thick sticky mud.
The walls are high. You imagine climbing these walls as a difficult task. The more you climb to get out...the more the walls crumble. Everytime you dig harder to get out, the more planted you become.
Often we create mind-sets that are hard to break. We form patterns and images in our mind. This imagery we create can be both good & evil.
Try creating a new image. Easier said than done. Imagine yourself on solid ground, perhaps made of stone. Think of your problems more of a mountain. A solid mass. Imagine you must climb this mountain, the top is far but your feet are steady. You will not sink, you will not falter. The mission will be hard, but not impossible.
Sometimes you can change your perspective with out actually changing your physical scenery.
Just my thoughts!
Katie
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To put a little spin on the topic, sometimes being in a rut is a good thing. Too much changing can be worse than where you started from. Depends if the rut is rotten. If not, leave it be.
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Thanks to you both, katie your insight is something i havent really thought about. It's not really about MY rut, as just to see about EVERYONE's ruts??
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Thanks! Either that if I am stuck in a rut...I shift into 4-wheel drive & go muddin'
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Maybe i should have wrote time, time is one of the biggest keys to getting out of a rut, so Time is my new answer.
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