Your being alone is only temporary. I hate to judge people, but just from the bit you've shared here, she just doesn't seem to know what she wants and will only drag you back down. If you are content without her, then obviously you aren't meant to be with her. Sometimes these kinds of break ups can bring couples back together, realize they've made mistakes and want to be together. This does not seem to be the case. Only you know what she may be thinking or what her alterior motive is to see you. Just use your head and not your heart for this one!
Yes she wants what she knows and is safe because she is disappointed that her marriage plans didn't work out!!!!!
It doesn't change who she is or the reasons you divorced in the first place.....You are obviously happy with yourself right now so why even consider going into a situation that will make you unhappy as it has in the past!!!!
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).