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Wow... I say carry on with your life dark. All the best and good luck on CS
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thanks jane
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Since you don't know what to do, it sounds like you wouldn't mind getting back with your ex. Is that really fair to anyone that you might start something with here?
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My advice to you is to remember why you two got divorced in the first place. Don't let only the fond memories come back to you right now, keep in mind what came between you two. Then you have to decide if it is worth taking the chance with her again or is it better to move on with your life, as you seem to be doing so well. That is the best advice I can give you 
Good luck in your choices, Dark...
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I say visit. You really liked her once to marry her. Spend some time testing the water.
She may have lived and learned. She may not. But you know what she was like and you will know what you could expect. Everyone deserves a second chance.
She could just want to cement a friendship and that be all there is to it.
Find out and be sure because assumptions burn.
Another saying "better the devil you know.
If my Ex gave me a second chance I would take it. She was a special person.
She may have lived and learned. She may not. But you know what she was like and you will know what you could expect. Everyone deserves a second chance.
She could just want to cement a friendship and that be all there is to it.
Find out and be sure because assumptions burn.
Another saying "better the devil you know.
If my Ex gave me a second chance I would take it. She was a special person.
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well weve only been divorced since december 05. Since that time, we tried getting back together once. She just moved back to cali, right after new years. And it was like 2 weeks after that she said that she was getting married. Her and I do NOT get along at all when we live together, I dont like the person that I am then. But she is a good woman, and i do wish her the best of luck, i just dont think we could get back together like that.
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This lady is playing you like a bad poker hand. Look carefully. She wants to hang on to everything she has. If this new guy doesn't work out, maybe she'll have you to fall back on. If the next guy she meets on the puter and wants to marry doesn't work out, you just hang around and maybe she'll call you. Don't be an idiot! Don't take her calls and find yourself someone with all their crayons in the box.
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Hi darkresearcher,
Did you ask her why she wants to fly you out to visit? Did you ask her what happened to the guy she was going to marry? LovingMyGod
Did you ask her why she wants to fly you out to visit? Did you ask her what happened to the guy she was going to marry? LovingMyGod
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rrrrun for your life man...stay away...danger !! danger!! 
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So what was the purpose of telling you about this other person in her life....and that she is getting married.....is she or isn't she?....is this the desire for one last fling with you or whats up? My last boyfriends wife wanted him as a sidekick while she was asking her live in boyfriend to marry her....via his mouth....I know they were together quit frequently....then after two years I told the guy....after that he married her....go figure this one out!!!! I felt I was the only loser in that one....
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I wasted four years of my life on all three of their cheating ways....I was sooooooo stupid......hindsight wow....
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if kids involved visit
if interested in rekindling visit
if not then don't
be a man about it
don't take advantage
if interested in rekindling visit
if not then don't
be a man about it
don't take advantage
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If you are still friends with her, and she gets you a plane ticket, I say GO and visit !!! She may need a good friend right now. Wouldn't hurt to take some time off and visit Calif would it?
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I say tell her to stay in California, good luck with her new marriage and you move further north. 
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Trust your instincts even though , they might pull you in the wrong way . You only live once ...Be honest with yourself and you will choose the right path. Good luck.
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This may not be advice, But if you get along better divorced. Then move on i guess she would. Not mean that in a bad way. But i see T V. Where they both move on. But if you have kids keep them in consideration. Is this what you mean by talking.
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I going to edit the "extra" words, and translate...
"She's planning on marrying, this guy she's never met."----She would rather be committed to a stranger, then to be alone.
"She went there for 5 days. Then calls me and wants me to visit her."----She met the stranger, it went poorly.
"She's planning on marrying, this guy she's never met."----She would rather be committed to a stranger, then to be alone.
"She went there for 5 days. Then calls me and wants me to visit her."----She met the stranger, it went poorly.
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My ex-wife and I get along better now that we are divorced, but she calls me out of the blue one day to tell me shes getting married and I should here it from her before others tell me, then she explaines it out to me. She's planning on marrying, this guy off the net thats shes never met before. So about 2 months after that she tells me that shes flying to seattle to meet this guy, and i say ok. So she went out there on wednesday, and she came back sunday. Then calls me right after and says that if she can get the money together she wants to fly me back to cali where shes living with her parents, to visit her. I just laughed and never answered her. Im talking to woman on here, now, so Im not sure what to do.