hey dont wanna bother anyone but! (24)

i guess you haven't met the right one cause we could all use a lil change on a few things
Charlene

Yer right,

It's been a while since I've been on a date...

well ty for all the advise ! ill try to the best i can if not itll me ol me !

and your good enough to get anyone you want if you try hard enough Charlene

A lot of guys are picky too you know, but I don't think women are that different us. You could call it natural selection. The internets (hehe..) are making things a lot easier. At the same time though it's also making it more difficult for the people who've had bad experiences online. I know i've had my share.

Perhaps I've been fooled and maybe you are right, or maybe it's just not the right time?

At our age I think we are not changing much....we just have to get lucky and find the right match....good luck...hugs....ani

Sorry Charlie ,i did not want a friendship with you because I feel you are too young for me.. no bad feelings I hope...

Have to agree with you on that one Ani, people do get set in their ways the older they get and your right about finding someone that matches. A difficult thing to find the right match. No two people are completely alike, thats what keeps life interesting.

YEP, I am with you two on this one as well. The proof is with my grandmother. Before I realized this, I would try and change her ways. Finally, I decided to just make sure to talk to my children after visits, counteract her views, lol. She is the type who uses words she shouldn't (not profanity, of course), and makes the wrong assumptions about others. As far as relationships go, it is best never to try and change anyone...my last relationship is proof for that also, lol. It must be little things about the other person you would like to change (even though you can't). Priorities and morals are hard to compromise, so we must find someone who shares our views on them...everything else can be overlooked if you love them enough.

Good luck to everyone finding the one that will make your lives exciting.

I generally find that most people have an idea of what kind of life they want to have and are looking for someone to fit into that particular plan. I am more the type to see what both parties have in common and mostly to see what we do not have in common because differences in people is a perfect way of learning things outside of the box and experiencing life through someone else's eyes. I hope to find someone a little less rigid in their life plan and a little more accepting of finding out new things to add to their existence.