I have done this in the past,it is SO EASY to Love someone that is far away,because you don't have to live with them, or know of their little or big imperfections...
Well if you both feel that it's LOVE, The Close The GAP!!! Take that plunge and work to make it real,Or just forget it...
Because Long Distance LOVE is Farcicle at best and very little more then Fantacy, we all need the human touch and the reality of living with our LOVED ONE and our Family...
Love is not made of only chat talk ect .... real life has a way of opening your eye's to things you never thought to know about the other person soooooo close the gap with no expectations and all is good go into it with expectations and your doomed to find out that Life is ohh so REAL
I would love to close the gap. We've only known each other for a few weeks, but we really want to meet. The only thing standing between us is the Atlantic Ocean, oh yeah and the money for airfare. Any suggestions?
Ok, now I am confused...what has money got to do with distance?
What is it you can not live?
As to your direct comment on a certain Scottish man in another post, namely Pete...is it ok if he buries his mother before he races to the other side of the world to live happily ever after?
As you appear to have such an 'all world all wise' narrow minded view on what can and cannot be with two people who are not you....
explain, theorise how it cannot be so...
And while you're at it, explain why it is so, that you can perceive my heart and mind is so feeble and so fickle that I will surely wander elsewhere. How is it that you know me so well?
Expose yourself, oh judgemental one...
Your predictions fascinate me...sadly they haven't been as challenging as I had hoped...but hey. it's getting late...
bamabeeceeBanks of the Warrior River, USA1,641 posts
I'll close the gap when I damn well please, and you're not one to be telling me or anyone else to forget it.
I am closer right now to a man who is 562 miles from me at this moment than I ever was with the man I lived in the same house with for 16 years. Distance has nothing to do with the closeness of hearts.
Well Jess Someone did Nuke my Soul and I can never know anyone,you have blocked me so I will say my piece here on The FORUMS...
I am older then my prophile states,I am an Employer and the last time I looked at a Financial report I was worth a bit more then a powerful lot of money I still work because working is my way of life and Allot of peole are employed by my opperations and I place my people firse before me...
I live in a hole in the wall, it's a very nice hole in the wall, but still it's just a hole in the wall...
#0 years ago my girlfriend was killed by her dad who did not like me...
So I did not date for 23 years and when I came back to it,everything had changed and I no longer understood...
To say that my life and the events of my life have not been just a tad extream would be puting it mildly...
Like Howard Hughs I am kept,protected and not alowed to date,as ever it shall be...
My soul belongs to The Lord and I am only ever FREE within TM or deep within my dreams...
I am also free to write and post on here...
I might have preferred that to have been a private letter,But Jess you BLOCKED ME...
Jess US YANKS ARE FAMOUSE FOR PUTING OUR MONEY WHERE OUR MOUTH IS...
I'm coming to the realization, that long distance love it's surreal. You must have real everydau interaction with the person you love. U have to be able to see into his/her eyes, so u can say for sure he/she is your true love. However, i don't discard the possibility of long distance relationships because i've heard too many happy stories.
I blocked you because you scared the bejeesus out of me the other night...
I enjoy learning and understanding peopel, and why people are motivated to do what they do...but never have I seen a systematic, post by post onslought of responses.
It is one thing to have insomnia, as you did that evening, but it is another to bombard the forums as you did.
Personally I found it disturbing behaviour, on your part, and there was little I could do, other than have you out here in the open forums...to learn who you are, and what your motivation is.
I am sorry for you that you lost your love, that she was taken from you in violent circumstances. And that when you felt strong enough to consider another love, the world had changed so.
What I don't understand is if you were still participating in the business world, how it wa that your interaction and relations in a day to day world did not atrophy at the same rate that you felt the dating world, or your dating skills had.
Money seems to be important to you, there are numerous references to it by you...is that how you define yourself? By your material wealth?
It appears you have good intentions for others, and want a full and loving life for them, even though you state you are denied that, so I don't believe you have had your soul nuked...
The closer i get to her, the more it becomes a reality to close the gap. Once im for certain, and things have time to see what we are both really about..then the dream will finally be a reality.
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Well if you both feel that it's LOVE, The Close The GAP!!! Take that plunge and work to make it real,Or just forget it...
Because Long Distance LOVE is Farcicle at best and very little more then Fantacy, we all need the human touch and the reality of living with our LOVED ONE and our Family...
So Stop Playing and Make it into your Reality...