Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest? ( Archived) (75)

Mar 15, 2007 11:30 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
transientmind
transientmindtransientmindTulsa, USA16 Threads 1,252 Posts
Who had 15 years of PHD studies?
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Mar 15, 2007 11:32 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
bamabeecee
bamabeeceebamabeeceeBanks of the Warrior River, USA50 Threads 1,641 Posts
Obv not him, he has a watch on for a belt! jaw drop grin
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Mar 15, 2007 11:37 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
transientmind
transientmindtransientmindTulsa, USA16 Threads 1,252 Posts
***Cooldude runs for the dictionary***
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Mar 16, 2007 9:08 AM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
cooldude747
cooldude747cooldude747Crest Hill, USA100 Threads 1,234 Posts
I see we have some English majors in the audience. My major is Physics professor
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Mar 16, 2007 9:24 AM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
bamabeecee
bamabeeceebamabeeceeBanks of the Warrior River, USA50 Threads 1,641 Posts
We're messin' withcha, luv ya dude! grin
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Mar 16, 2007 9:36 AM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
Mette
MetteMetteCopenhagen, Capital Region Denmark3 Threads 48 Posts
Hmmm in my 30years only two men has taken the first step.
I almost, always make the first move, wish it wasent so, becaus i like it werry mutch when the man takes the lead. grin
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Mar 16, 2007 10:06 AM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
Musicalle
MusicalleMusicalleHalifax, Nova Scotia Canada19 Threads 415 Posts
At the risk of sounding like I can't come up with a thought on my own....


OH WELL...dunno


YAH What Jess Said!!!yay
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Mar 16, 2007 10:13 AM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
Well, If I DO initiate it first..
Just don't get the idea that I'm desperate.
Because I'm not.
yada, yada.....

Sometimes we gals LIKE to take our time
getting to know a person first. If we show
interest first then the guys think we're hot
to trot...
yada, yada....

There seems to be a double standard about this...
You fella's say one thing and mean another.
Then it comes back to us saying to us that any
thing that goes wrong is our fault, since we initiated
it in the first place...
yada, yada....

....................................I'm treading water....dancing


............................................doing the breast stroke...applause


...............................................floating on my back....rolling on the floor laughing


.............................................................help...help


.......................................gulp...sigh


(have no idea what this is going to look like when I'm through, haha)
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Mar 16, 2007 6:02 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
cooldude747
cooldude747cooldude747Crest Hill, USA100 Threads 1,234 Posts
Hi Mette, You are from the home of the master of Quantum mechanics (Niels Bohr). Ok, From a guys point of view....Men hit on girls all the time and because of that fact women in general are sick of it. In retaliation they are usually rude or if they are polite they lie and say I already have a boyfriend or Hubby. Or they really are taken. Thus men are burnt out and give up after so many thousand tempts. However, A man will always appreciate a girls attempt on him. professor
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Mar 16, 2007 7:50 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
mancovered
mancoveredmancoveredBrighton, East Sussex, England UK9 Threads 285 Posts
I agree.....It's happened to me and I so welcomed thisxxxxxxxx

On a lighter note Women tend not to want to fork out for The Mash Potato as a rule.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 16, 2007 8:05 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Mar 16, 2007 9:14 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
transientmind
transientmindtransientmindTulsa, USA16 Threads 1,252 Posts
I posted to your thread earlier when I was in a humorous mood...now I'm being serious mood. You're absolutely right, these days women are (as a general rule) tired of bad pick up lines and pathetic come-ons, that's why I avoid that sort of thing like the plague. As a rule, I won't flirt with a woman unless they're a friend first or at least until I've talked to them for a while. I believe that this allows them to see me as a human being instead of a "chauvanist pig." Often, the woman will show interest when I'm talking to them as a platonic friend. We all have needs, the difference is in the approach.

...And BTW, I was home schooled, dropped out of high school to keep the family business afloat. I'm not an english major, I do believe that the centers of higher learning should add some english language refresher courses so that the graduates can be taken more seriously. Your education became obvious later; before I posted, I thought you were a poseur.
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Mar 19, 2007 11:03 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
cooldude747
cooldude747cooldude747Crest Hill, USA100 Threads 1,234 Posts
professor
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Mar 19, 2007 11:24 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
cooldude747
cooldude747cooldude747Crest Hill, USA100 Threads 1,234 Posts
Cool,professor
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Mar 19, 2007 11:42 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
cooldude747
cooldude747cooldude747Crest Hill, USA100 Threads 1,234 Posts
This is a great thread. professor
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Mar 21, 2007 10:16 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
cooldude747
cooldude747cooldude747Crest Hill, USA100 Threads 1,234 Posts
I am so sad. I want to be loved.blushing
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Apr 1, 2007 8:11 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
cooldude747
cooldude747cooldude747Crest Hill, USA100 Threads 1,234 Posts
I agree.professor
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Apr 1, 2007 8:17 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
VioladorDeLaLey
VioladorDeLaLeyVioladorDeLaLeyBajo Un Sol Feliz, USA11 Threads 4,548 Posts
I agree with you on that bro thumbs up
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Apr 1, 2007 8:24 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
stonekeeper
stonekeeperstonekeepermauston, USA20 Threads 220 Posts
damn...theres some sort of initiation around here????
how does one get into that secret society?devil
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Apr 19, 2007 8:38 PM CST Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
cooldude747
cooldude747cooldude747Crest Hill, USA100 Threads 1,234 Posts
Its funny cause its true.professor head banger
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