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Mar 20, 2007 2:02 PM CST Break The Cycle
twilightstwin
twilightstwintwilightstwinDetroit Lakes, USA95 Threads 3,537 Posts
Do you live your life by a daily routine?

Or do you choose to BREAK THE CYCLE?

Studies show that many Americans do the exact same thing everyday, and tend to have routine preferences.

90% -Will always park in the same row everytime at groucery store.
85%- Tend to always use the same restroom/ stall at work or school.

Do you believe in having a daily routine?

Pros & Cons?
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Mar 20, 2007 2:35 PM CST Break The Cycle
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
I'm not sure it's a belief of mine, more than I just do

things the same way, often. It fits my comfort level, I

guess. Sometimes I will notice that I'm doing that and

will deliberately change something but then I'll opt to

go back to the old routine because it turns out to be

more efficient. And, that is because I'm so used to doing

things in the same ole way. oooh, when I think about it

now, I'm like one of those lab rats that have been conditioned

to do things in a certain way. help
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Mar 20, 2007 2:45 PM CST Break The Cycle
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
Breaking a cycle is taking a risk. Most people like to only take calculated risks. They weigh things up and view the risks mentally before acting. Hence they tend to do the same thing all the the time with the simplest of tasks.

These tests are done on things like how one goes through their day or does the dishes.

Yet we as individuals have taught ourselves that this is the most efficient way to do things.

Routine allows you to plan your day and you can plan a risk period in your day.

E.g. 4pm - 5pm is free. It comes between collecting kids from school and cooking evening meal. You can go for a run or go have a beer. Or just sunbathe in the coustyard.
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Mar 20, 2007 3:00 PM CST Break The Cycle
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
It’s not just a matter of avoiding risks.

It’s also a matter of having gotten it down to a science.

I mean, once you’ve figured out an efficient way to do something why go back to trial and error again?

There’s a huge difference between mindlessly falling into a boring rut, and purposefully honing your efficiency.

If you’re doing the former perhaps you should think about a change. If you’re doing the latter why change? You found a system that works well, it’s not a rut, it’s ‘being efficient’.

I eat at only a very select few restaurants in my town. Three to be exact, even though there are several dozen restaurants around. The fact of the matter is that I enjoy their food. They’re consistent and I always enjoy my meal. Why break the cycle to go off and try things that I may not like? In fact, in my case I can pretty much guarantee that I won’t like them because having tried them in the past and being disappointed it how I honed myself down to the three that I now use.

In other words, my ‘cycle’ isn’t a ‘rut’, but rather it’s the end result of efficiency honing. wink
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Mar 20, 2007 3:18 PM CST Break The Cycle
bl8ant
bl8antbl8antAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands3 Threads 1,000 Posts
omg!!! if these stats are true.....how scary is that!!! SHEEP baaaaaaaaaaaa baaaaaaaaaaa


let's play follow the leader ....watch me jump off this tank and shoot all the little brown people.....help grin
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Mar 20, 2007 3:20 PM CST Break The Cycle
native_grl38
native_grl38native_grl38Belleville, Canada10 Threads 4,332 Posts
I hate monotony and routine...So as much as I can.....I try to mix things up!!!!!!!!!

conversing conversing
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Mar 20, 2007 3:27 PM CST Break The Cycle
imbroglio
imbroglioimbroglioWest Linn, USA96 Threads 2,928 Posts
Well in the morning it's the same routine...

Wake up...start coffee..work out for a half hour...take shower...drink coffee... go to work....check mail on CS.... leave work...hang out with kiddo

the rest....

Well other than talkin to all the CS homies is about as spontaneous as is gets

Park at the same place at the store...? nope

The only thing I can say about the pros and cons is that if I stick to the morning "routine" I don't have to worry about getting stuck in traffic

But if I lived my life by the same routine every day
I think I would get bored quickly

Although I do feel that some routines are necessary ... especially if you have children
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Mar 20, 2007 3:33 PM CST Break The Cycle
bl8ant
bl8antbl8antAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands3 Threads 1,000 Posts
and quit taking jabs at me then!!! and find back your sense of humourwave
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Mar 20, 2007 3:36 PM CST Break The Cycle
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
my sense of humor is alive and well...but you know when you call me a sheep,I'm gonna get mad...hugs to yahug
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Mar 20, 2007 3:47 PM CST Break The Cycle
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
I break every cycle I can with 9 kids! I just wish the 'other' "cycle" wouldn't come again and I would never have to worry about anymore children!rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 20, 2007 3:49 PM CST Break The Cycle
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 20, 2007 5:31 PM CST Break The Cycle
uk1971
uk1971uk1971Lippstädt/Gütersloh, Germany330 Threads 2,429 Posts
OMGjaw drop jaw drop 9 kids. Haven't you got a TV.devil grin uk
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Mar 20, 2007 5:34 PM CST Break The Cycle
TheLonelyWalker
TheLonelyWalkerTheLonelyWalkerDebary, USA42 Threads 565 Posts
i do have a routine for many things because it's easier to do a lot of practical things. However, sometimes we need to change our daily activities, so we can enjoy more diversity and avoid boredom.
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Mar 20, 2007 7:21 PM CST Break The Cycle
karRiizman
karRiizmankarRiizmangrafton, Australia9 Threads 297 Posts
I BROKE MY LAST CYCLE IM OK HAVENT GOT A DOG ANY MOREcrying HE WAS A GOOD MATE .COULDENT LIVE WITH OUT A BIKE AND IM LOOKING FOR A WOMAN TO DOUBLE NOW. banana
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Mar 20, 2007 7:41 PM CST Break The Cycle
twilightstwin
twilightstwintwilightstwinDetroit Lakes, USA95 Threads 3,537 Posts
I have daily routines that can not be broken. My son is my foreman.laugh


I am guilty...I park in the same row at Walmart in the same spot.


I like to be further away cause I don't want to get door dinged, and Im by the cart corel.

Soon I find myself bored with the daily grind...So I do park on the other side (and can't find my car)...I take a different road home (then discover its full of pot holes)....decide to eat breakfast for once(and forget the toast in the toaster).rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 20, 2007 7:43 PM CST Break The Cycle
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
laugh I'll bet you have graffiti on your uterus!

Love ya...hug

Kathleen
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Mar 20, 2007 7:44 PM CST Break The Cycle
Jess642
Jess642Jess642Agnes Water, Australia25 Threads 4,545 Posts
I have graffiti on my fridge....does that count???
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Mar 20, 2007 7:54 PM CST Break The Cycle
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
That works, and it's easier to get off. laugh
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Mar 20, 2007 8:21 PM CST Break The Cycle
nostres59840
nostres59840nostres59840Missoula, Montana USA14 Threads 640 Posts
I would never choose to live my life like a machine. Abra is correct in the things that are fine tuned and work, keep them. The rest of it I mix it up. I am also conscious of going new places and not keeping a specific time schedule of stops. I guess that is the law enforcement side of me. Being too predictable can lead to other possibilities rather unpleasant for single women.

I vote "Break the Cycle" look around and every day try something new you never know where or who it will take you to. applause
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Mar 20, 2007 8:27 PM CST Break The Cycle
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
Very good point. Got me thinking about it, now.

Vary my routine. thumbs up
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