I've had several occasions when a young lady contacted me, I replied and heard nothing from them again. Ladies, what are you looking for in a first reply?
anything ... but your family problems and full genealogy of brothers and sisters and far away relatives ... and what have you bought lately ...etc and make it SHORT. Some sense of humor would be a nice addition.
my post refers not exactly to you Transienmind ... just in general
if they respond to what i've written and not something totally off subject and then follow up with something I can respond to I usually will give it a second try. After that if the conversation goes no where then I usually have the courtesy of ending the conversation.
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I've had several occasions when a young lady contacted me, I replied and heard nothing from them again. Ladies, what are you looking for in a first reply?