Ok. You decided the other party is absolutely worth pursuing and after following all of the above, like the person has responded to your emails, you have been corresponding for two months, you feel getting closer, you have talked on the phone and interchanged emails and pictures. the qestion is brought up, "where is this going?", "is there a chance?", "do you see a future?", and then "plopf" you are handed a reality check. What do you do?
There are many, many ways on how I'd make this determination...but mostly, my intuition tells me much...& I listen to it. In general, though, I prefer to be the one being pursued.
i just don't know or i forgot thru the passing of time... the animal instincts are there and stong, but the follow through to develope a more substanial bond... sems I'm better at picking lottery numbers then this. too old or just not that easily impressed anymore???
the the empty of coffee in front of me tells me its time to earn a living ..
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Just flipping the tortilla, for variety.