Ethical Question (12)
tazmaninangelEdmonton, Alberta Canada118 Threads 1 Polls 2,608 PostsIf you were in a relationship...doesn't matter how long - but were emotionally commited,, then one day you meet some one who makes you melt by just standing beside you...what would you do?
If I was in an emotionally committed relationship and someone made me "Melt'? I'd have to question my emotions and enjoy the moment. Then I'd go home and forget it. If it was someone I worked with and had to see on an ongoing basis, it probably would take some soul searching but I think for me, to get myself to a committed relationship in the first place, my woman would be the only one who could make me melt. I may find other women attractive, maybe love their perfume, eyes or smile but I'd still rather be with my own woman. Having said that, I'm older and I know that the grass is seldom greener elsewhwere. I didn't always know that but you find things out by mistakes and I made my share.
...hard to say...but if it happened once, it will probably happen again...
<----This girl is faithful at all costs.
When I have been in a relationship, other men have never interested me in that way. If a guy is flirting with me or hitting on me knowing that I'm attached, it's a turnoff. If he didn't know, I would accept it as a compliment and let it go.
I suppose that if I had those kinds of thoughts, it would make me question what was lacking in my relationship to make it even possible for someone to have that affect on me.
I just wanna go home to my man everyday!!
When I have been in a relationship, other men have never interested me in that way. If a guy is flirting with me or hitting on me knowing that I'm attached, it's a turnoff. If he didn't know, I would accept it as a compliment and let it go.
I suppose that if I had those kinds of thoughts, it would make me question what was lacking in my relationship to make it even possible for someone to have that affect on me.
I just wanna go home to my man everyday!!
I figure for me to be in an emotionally committed relationship - he's pretty special and he's got me.
The being melted by a stranger - while nice - would be long forgotten by the time I walked in the door at home and saw 'him' smiling at me.
The being melted by a stranger - while nice - would be long forgotten by the time I walked in the door at home and saw 'him' smiling at me.
That was probably the best response I have ever heard to anything posted on here. Good For You
for me, if I was in a relationship and met someone who made me "melt"? this is what I would do......ABSOLUTELY N-O-T-H-I-N-G
Sometimes we wonder about the unknown.....and wonder what it would be like......and that is cool, and I think is human nature......
But if I a emotionally committed to someone else, I can say THAT is more appealing to me than some eye candy.......
I would probably ponder the thought of this other person being soooo handsome/sweet but I would lose that thought almost immediately, knowing who and what I have for me anytime, anywhere, any place........
just my two cents.......
Sometimes we wonder about the unknown.....and wonder what it would be like......and that is cool, and I think is human nature......
But if I a emotionally committed to someone else, I can say THAT is more appealing to me than some eye candy.......
I would probably ponder the thought of this other person being soooo handsome/sweet but I would lose that thought almost immediately, knowing who and what I have for me anytime, anywhere, any place........
just my two cents.......
Be still my heart..this answer can move mountains!!!Well,if it was an emotional committment,he would know me well,and how tormented I would be about my intense response to this other person,and if I made an immoral choice,we'd be able to work it out,as we likely would have talked about monogamy before anything happened,it's something I address from the get go.
Very well put,I agree with you all the way.
I am not sure i understand the question...sorry to much sun and beer yesterday.
I would wonder how committed i was to the person i was with if i felt something for someone else. To me, i obviously would not be that emotionally committed if i felt something for someone else.
I am not sure what i would do, too vague of a situation.
Too many here will just type what they want others to here i think.
I would wonder how committed i was to the person i was with if i felt something for someone else. To me, i obviously would not be that emotionally committed if i felt something for someone else.
I am not sure what i would do, too vague of a situation.
Too many here will just type what they want others to here i think.
Good answer pucks -
let's make it clearer - since I was in this situation a few years ago. Was dating a man for about a year, had it's good and bad. Then met a guy that made me melt and he was asking me out. What did I do... well the fact that I was feeling these fellings was clear that I was not committed to making the first relationship work. I broke it off with the first guy and did date the second - it lasted for a time and was fantastic. Even tho it didn't last it was really good.
and yes I want to go home to my man every day - knowing he is THE one I want to go home to.
let's make it clearer - since I was in this situation a few years ago. Was dating a man for about a year, had it's good and bad. Then met a guy that made me melt and he was asking me out. What did I do... well the fact that I was feeling these fellings was clear that I was not committed to making the first relationship work. I broke it off with the first guy and did date the second - it lasted for a time and was fantastic. Even tho it didn't last it was really good.
and yes I want to go home to my man every day - knowing he is THE one I want to go home to.
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