Well, being a man who has sent a drink over more than a few times to try and break the ice, Ill tell you the deal. Most women accept the drink and will give you a nod of thanks if not actually tell you thanks. Some women will look at you and say "No thank you" and that is still polite, it just says they are not interested. Normally if they are interested at all then this opens up the opportunity for them to acknowledge you and give some of those famous "hints" that yes, you just might work, hehe. The hard part is interpreting the signs.......
Just an observation from an older guy with plenty of bar experience from my younger days.
I think that guy was ridiculous and will likely remain single for awhile, lol. You can accept a drink if you want from someone who sends one over, no rules one way or the other, and what one woman would choose to do does not mean that another has to respond in the same way. I definately do not think that accepting a drink from a guy means you owe him anything in any way shape or form, and if he thinks it does, then so sorry for him. ;)
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I'm near up to 50 and still some of you ladies can make me blush.
I would enjoy meeting any friends of yours.
thank you