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Apr 4, 2007 7:31 PM CST Guys Really ........
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
What do you expect if you are out and buy a Girl a drink...


I met my friend for happy hour and a guy sent me a drink I looked over and said thank you. About 20 mins later he comes over to me and said you should have been over to talk to me 5 mins after I sent that drink to you .....


Well after I got myself off the floor from LMAO I said and you are who.....FOAD doh


Is there a 5 min rule ?
Should a girl send a drink back ?
Do you have to go talk to them ?

help
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Apr 4, 2007 7:34 PM CST Guys Really ........
racehead
raceheadraceheadInthehills, USA5 Threads 487 Posts
What the hell do you think he wanted? A game of chess? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
I don't think there is a standing rule unless ppl are that shallow. dunno
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Apr 4, 2007 7:34 PM CST Guys Really ........
doug_344
doug_344doug_344grand rapids, Michigan USA33 Threads 365 Posts
you should of said buy me another then go wait 5 more mins!!!laugh
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Apr 4, 2007 7:35 PM CST Guys Really ........
uk1971
uk1971uk1971Lippstädt/Gütersloh, Germany330 Threads 2,429 Posts
I wouldn't expect a drink in return. I'd be grateful that you accepted a drink from a stranger in the first place.
It's also up to the girl if she wants to go and talk. uk
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Apr 4, 2007 7:35 PM CST Guys Really ........
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Grow up! If a guy sends a drink over he wants something. If you're not interested don't accept it!
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Apr 4, 2007 7:36 PM CST Guys Really ........
AdventureBegins
AdventureBeginsAdventureBeginsZanesville, USA66 Threads 1,718 Posts
Ignore idiots!

If I buy you a drink in a bar the only thing I expect is you raise the glass and toast my effort.

If you exceed my expectations Whoo hooo.

If you don't oh well.

At least you will know I thought you were attractive enough to break the ice.
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Apr 4, 2007 7:37 PM CST Guys Really ........
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
Don’t look at me, I’m totally out of the loop.

I would never buy a stranger a drink from across a bar.

Moreover, if I were a woman I would never accept a drink from a stranger from across the bar. He could be a serial killer for all you know!

But finally, if someone buys you a drink it doesn’t obligate you to do anything at all. Why should it?

If that were the case you’d do well to reject any drinks offered by strangers.

I’m not into the bar scene to begin with. Just not my cup of tea. rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 4, 2007 7:39 PM CST Guys Really ........
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up

Exactly!
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Apr 4, 2007 7:40 PM CST Guys Really ........
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up

Another reason I don't like the bar scene!
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Apr 4, 2007 7:41 PM CST Guys Really ........
twilightstwin
twilightstwintwilightstwinDetroit Lakes, USA95 Threads 3,537 Posts
What a gent.. LOL.


No there is no rule!


Common courtesy would be to accept the drink and say "Thank you".

Their gesture will be appreciated, and should be nothing more than that.


Grrr...Sorry you witnessed that. I hate people who only do things if its rewarding to them.
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Apr 4, 2007 7:42 PM CST Guys Really ........
sunnyisles
sunnyislessunnyislesCaribbean, Barbados8 Threads 273 Posts
Yes rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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Apr 4, 2007 7:44 PM CST Guys Really ........
sunnyisles
sunnyislessunnyislesCaribbean, Barbados8 Threads 273 Posts
Oh so true. They are only interested in what the can get out of it.: sigh
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Apr 4, 2007 7:50 PM CST Guys Really ........
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
I don't understand some of these responses! Why on earth would you accept a drink from somebody you don't know unless you are as interested as he obviously is.

No wonder many guys think they can buy us.
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Apr 4, 2007 7:55 PM CST Guys Really ........
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
Duh,... intelligent conversation? uh oh

Just guess'in.
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Apr 4, 2007 7:55 PM CST Guys Really ........
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
Well there u have it respnses are unanimous.
How u deal with it is your choice.

But with the drugging of drinks that goes on these days(Well at least what i hear about in the media) I would say accepting drinks from strangers a risk worth turning down.
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Apr 4, 2007 7:57 PM CST Guys Really ........
racehead
raceheadraceheadInthehills, USA5 Threads 487 Posts
<----hates drunk chicks. mumbling
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Apr 4, 2007 7:57 PM CST Guys Really ........
AdventureBegins
AdventureBeginsAdventureBeginsZanesville, USA66 Threads 1,718 Posts
Thats why you have the bartender mix it right in front of her.
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Apr 4, 2007 8:00 PM CST Guys Really ........
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
But she's not looking. The whole idea of sending a drink over is the surprise isn't it?
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Apr 4, 2007 8:00 PM CST Guys Really ........
cardsfan23
cardsfan23cardsfan23somewhere, USA23 Threads 4,228 Posts
Ok ok , man bree did ya have to tell everyone that i said that...did you like that drink thougH???laugh
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Apr 4, 2007 8:01 PM CST Guys Really ........
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
that is to simple lol
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