3 Things you want most. ( Archived) (18)

Apr 5, 2007 12:50 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
mrgoodintentions
mrgoodintentionsmrgoodintentionsJacksonville, Florida USA11 Threads 100 Posts
I have question for you all..

What's the 3 things that you want most in life when you find love in your lives (Besides just settling down) and how do all these relate to each other?

For example:

The first thing I want is a life without jealousy. It only creates problems i've found. Some jealousies are justified though, I say as long as your not cheating, then I don't have any reason to be jealous. On the same token, I want a woman that wants and likes to go out with me places, likes to travel, meet new people and make friends.

Secondly I want a child to raise and call my own. Certainly not right away, but when we're ready.

And lastly, I want to find my marbles cause I must be crazy for making a post like this.doh

-Tim
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Apr 5, 2007 1:02 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
denguefever
denguefeverdenguefeverIn the cellar!!!, UK32 Threads 1,204 Posts
coffee

A boat on clear blue 28 deg C warm seawater

dive gear
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Apr 5, 2007 1:05 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
mrgoodintentions
mrgoodintentionsmrgoodintentionsJacksonville, Florida USA11 Threads 100 Posts
It's easier to keep friends then to make em.

That's like the age-old debate of which wine is better, the new or old?

I think we can learn a lot from each other as we grow in our friendship. That's what it's all about!

hug
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Apr 5, 2007 1:07 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
denguefever
denguefeverdenguefeverIn the cellar!!!, UK32 Threads 1,204 Posts
Not for the sake of argument, but I would disagree with your first statement

It is easier to find friends than to keep true ones.

Keeping friends is an exercise in patience and understanding.

Anyone who assumes that friendship is an easy path is mistaken.

It is fraught with dangers, secrets and sometimes betrayal!!
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Apr 5, 2007 1:08 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
mrgoodintentions
mrgoodintentionsmrgoodintentionsJacksonville, Florida USA11 Threads 100 Posts
Never been on a boat. I was talking about going on a cruise the other day. It's sposed to be a cruise for two. Kinda got me feeling lonesome.
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Apr 5, 2007 1:12 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
denguefever
denguefeverdenguefeverIn the cellar!!!, UK32 Threads 1,204 Posts
The coffee would be ready
This boat would be plenty roomy enough for company.
The scuba tanks would always be filled!!

But its all about destination or location, dontcha know!
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Apr 5, 2007 1:13 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
Funny you should say "3"
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Apr 5, 2007 1:14 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
mrgoodintentions
mrgoodintentionsmrgoodintentionsJacksonville, Florida USA11 Threads 100 Posts
Yeah, that's why I said that with age comes experience. Older wine is more potent. Good Frienships, like fine wine come with experience.

I kinda beleive those hardships are inevitable, but it really should be easy for true friends, cause overcoming obstacles is part of life.
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Apr 5, 2007 1:16 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
mrgoodintentions
mrgoodintentionsmrgoodintentionsJacksonville, Florida USA11 Threads 100 Posts
That reminds me, I gotta get me a coffee maker when I get paid on Friday.
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Apr 5, 2007 1:17 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
A best-friend

Someone who is like-minded when it comes to lifestyle (a very simple life)

I guess that’s it other than great health for both of us.
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Apr 5, 2007 1:19 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
You going to up it to four things now? grin
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Apr 5, 2007 1:20 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
AdventureBegins
AdventureBeginsAdventureBeginsZanesville, USA66 Threads 1,718 Posts
Friendships

I would say they are more like the vine of the rose. They grow from seeds planeted near each other. The vines entwine, touching, yet not. There are thorns, but balanced by the sweet fragrance of the blossoms, beauty is present.
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Apr 5, 2007 1:27 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
mrgoodintentions
mrgoodintentionsmrgoodintentionsJacksonville, Florida USA11 Threads 100 Posts
Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
I'm buying a coffee maker,
So four things for you.

thumbs up drinking cheers
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Apr 5, 2007 1:34 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
My lifelong friends have been great and unwavering.

I have indeed taking them for granted as they have me.

In fact, you wouldn’t be much of a friend if you require that you don’t taken for granted.

My friends owe me nothing and I own them nothing. Friends don’t keep score.

I can’t say that I’ve ever had a ‘falling out’ with a friend.

I’ve known some people that I have tried to be friendly toward, and they have stabbed me in the back and have taken advantage of my kindness. But the bottom line is that they were never really friends to me. They were users that I offered friendship to and they basically declined by showing me complete disrespect.

I think some people are too quick to call ‘acquaintances’ friends. Friends don’t take advantage of friends. At least not in a detrimental or abusive way. A friend also won’t try to talk you into doing something that you really don’t feel good about.

I have seen people being abused by other people that they refer to as their “friends”. But in truth those people were not their friends.

So I guess the word itself can have differnet meanings to differnet people.
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Apr 5, 2007 1:35 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
shyone57
shyone57shyone57Kilkenny, Ireland14 Threads 2,037 Posts
The mother of friendship is love, and a mother knows her children always.
But when the mother(love) dies, her children(friendship)will be lost.
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Apr 5, 2007 1:37 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
The 3 things I wish most in life:

A happy life for my children.

To share laughter and joy with my friends.

Ok I realize that is only two....I dont wish for more ...so someone else can use my third wishwine
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Apr 5, 2007 1:38 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
This is true. And you don't take advantage of the ones you love, so if a so-called 'friend' is taking advantage of you, they really aren't a friend at all.
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Apr 5, 2007 2:11 AM CST 3 Things you want most.
dixrog
dixrogdixrogNorton, Virginia USA54 Threads 1,974 Posts
ahhhh, all you need is love, that's all you need...
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