Whos to blame? ( Archived) (10)

Apr 6, 2007 9:56 PM CST Whos to blame?
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
A girl with money (given freely by her grandad) likes a boy. Girls being the way they are, sometimes do so much when a guy shows them attention. Anyway he makes her feel they are an item. He does drugs. He talks her into paying for his drugs. She does, he introduces her to them as well. He has her spending so much money on him on a regular basis.
He dies of an overdose. She is found in a bag killed and stashed away.
If you are the parent. Who do you blame for his death? Him? Or her? Do you go after the grandad, and sue him?

By the way, it isn't known how she was killed.
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Apr 6, 2007 9:59 PM CST Whos to blame?
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
i blame no one person

i am to busy greiving

let the judicial system do the blaming

hate costs to much
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Apr 6, 2007 9:59 PM CST Whos to blame?
FallinAngel1
FallinAngel1FallinAngel1Fairfield, USA16 Threads 1,945 Posts
without knowing how or why she died.. i couldnt really blame anyone..

cant blame the grand dad.. unless he knew what the money was being spent on ..

cant blame her.. she was blinded by love.. thats really no one's fault..

and unless he knew she would die.. i dont think i could blame someone who is already dead anyway ..


i would probably blame myself if i were her mother
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Apr 6, 2007 9:59 PM CST Whos to blame?
native_grl38
native_grl38native_grl38Belleville, Canada10 Threads 4,332 Posts
Well why is they man the only consideration here???? I don't think anyone is to blame except the 2 people that are already dead.....They each made their own choices which obviously in some way led to both of their deaths!!!!!!!!!!


conversing conversing
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Apr 6, 2007 10:03 PM CST Whos to blame?
wryguy2
wryguy2wryguy2boston, Massachusetts USA7 Threads 51 Posts
I was going to say Colonel Mustard, in the library, with a candlestick.
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Apr 6, 2007 10:04 PM CST Whos to blame?
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
This is a true story.

The grandad was a millionaire, he spoiled his grandaughter. He gave her way too much spending money. It's all good though.
Anyway, the boy knew of her money.
The boys parents are sueing him for his death, because they blame her and he was her guardian. Not caring that he lost his granddaughter. I feel it is all about the money. The dad says,"I blame her".

No testamony of her death yet.
Kat
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Apr 6, 2007 10:09 PM CST Whos to blame?
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
well if it is proven he introduced her to the lifestyle they wont have much chance legitamatly

and if they were both adults then they made their own dessions

and if he is not an adult then maybe this will back fire

and he will get charge with chuild endangerment by failing to control

just a thought

but hey what do i know
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Apr 6, 2007 10:14 PM CST Whos to blame?
native_grl38
native_grl38native_grl38Belleville, Canada10 Threads 4,332 Posts
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! How about the fact that he was the one into drugs in the first place?????...Not to mention it may have been him that killed her because they don't know how she died yet!!!!!!!!!!

GEEZE people will sue for anything these days as long as they think they can get a buck!!!!!!!!!!

conversing conversing
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Apr 6, 2007 10:24 PM CST Whos to blame?
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
No, he did not kill her. She was found dead two years later behind a dumpster wrapped in a plastic bag. Death unknown as of yet. She had been missing for two or three weeks.

Her and her friend were doing the drugs together. She had lost most of her friends because of the money thing. She was approached by many drug dealers.
She went to her grandad for help after the boy died. He put her in rehab several times. She told him she didn't want the money anymore. That she was scared to have it.
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Apr 6, 2007 10:48 PM CST Whos to blame?
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
He had a business that made around 15,000,000 dollars a year.

This grandfather spent 15,000,000 dollars to build two churches.

He set up a fund to help people that needed it. He wanted to feed the hungry and the homeless. He had requests for things from entertainment systems to hummers, houses and new carpet. He helped to the tune of 50,000,000!

Everywhere he went people would come up to him and ask for money, as if he were Santa Claus. He couldn't go anywhare without people haunting him for money. Him and others would sit for up to ten hours opening mail that the carriers wouldn't even bring them , it was so overwhelming.

He had never had a lawsuit with his business, or anything. In about a years time he was bombarded with about 316 lawsuits

His wife has left him, and they are getting divorced.

He turned to drinking because the towns people turned on him, out of jealousy.

He used to be a happy man with his little family.
































Until he won the lottery.

He was one of the largest lottery winners in the country.
Was it a blessing? Seems it ruined his life as well as others.

Be careful what you ask for.
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