You are not goint to believe this! (31)

Apr 16, 2007 2:10 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
Kenai
KenaiKenaiBeausejour, Canada13 Threads 368 Posts
Ok as most of you know i went on a date on friday but it wasn't the man for me.
Well after i got home i started surfing in one of the websites that i am in and stumbled across a guy with no picture but he had the same interest and same likes and dislikes.
Well at first i wasn't going to write him i figured he is on 6 peoples favorite lists so he aint going to waste his time with me.
But i did write him and OH MY GOD!
If he is for real and he is the just the way he sounds and means what he says then, Ladies, i have hit the jackpot!!!!!!
He is sweet caring down to earth attentive says how he feels about you and so on.
He calls just to say hello and sends me good morning messages. I know this will sound so cliche but i feel like i have known this guy for years and not just a couple of days. It is such a strange feeling and it sounds crazy but it really feels like it.
He send me a picture of him self and he looks nice too. I mean last night we spent 4 hours on the phone and talked till 3:30 am.
We never had an empty moment in the conversation. There was always something to talk about and omg he is so sweet.
I am meeting him tomorrow and if he is just the way i think he is then he is not going home! Ever!
I am walking around with a smile on my face singing and dancing the sky is suddenly bluer and there is definitely a SPARK!!!!!!!!! smitten blushing banana yay
Apr 16, 2007 2:22 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
jolene69
jolene69jolene69Halifax, Nova Scotia Canada68 Posts
good luck, hope all goes well!cheering cheering cheering
Apr 16, 2007 4:13 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
All the best...I know what u mean.thumbs up
Apr 16, 2007 4:33 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
CaptainMurray
CaptainMurrayCaptainMurraySelkirk, Manitoba Canada59 Threads 2,130 Posts
Me too, good for you Kenai. I wonder if he got to say much?lol
Apr 16, 2007 5:50 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
TrueNorthMan7
TrueNorthMan7TrueNorthMan7Barrie, Canada34 Threads 1,096 Posts
That's amazing. Hope u find what ur looking 4
Apr 16, 2007 6:00 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
lefty
leftyleftyBurlington, Ontario Canada4 Threads 454 Posts
Way to go!!!!!


banana dancing peace
Apr 16, 2007 6:10 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
Tapestry
TapestryTapestryRichmond Hill, Ontario Canada2 Threads 222 Posts
cheering cheering cheering

Way to go girlfriend!!! I hope it all works out for you, but don't be forgetting your forums friends when you're all hitched up!!

cheers hug
Apr 16, 2007 6:52 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
Kenai
KenaiKenaiBeausejour, Canada13 Threads 368 Posts
OMG how could i ever forget you guys? No way! I wish you all would live closer so that i could meet you because i think you all are the most wonderful people i have ever met.
In the short time that i know you guys you have laughed with me and helped me on a crappy day. Some of you took the time to write me an e mail and it meant a lot to me honest!!
So i could never forget you guys.
I hope that things go well tomorrow and if it does or doesn't you all will know about it.
I will report back like the good little girl that i am. rolling on the floor laughing ok the good little girl part is a little exaggerated but no worries i am going to behave with him tomorrow and will report the outcome!

And yes Murray he got to say lots!!

Thanks for all your support guys and gals. You truly are unique and each of you is one of a kind!
yay cheering banana
Apr 16, 2007 8:39 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
tazmaninangel
tazmaninangeltazmaninangelEdmonton, Alberta Canada118 Threads 1 Polls 2,608 Posts
go girl - banana cheering waiting to hear backthumbs up peace
Apr 17, 2007 1:38 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
donnacala
donnacaladonnacalaNorth York, Ontario Canada27 Threads 875 Posts
whooooooooooooooo hooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!

same thing happened to me! but enough about me............

wishing you a huge night..........of fun, laughter and kiss kiss

way to go girl!cheering cheering
Apr 17, 2007 3:12 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
What happened to you? Are you hooked up too?

Is she back yet or are they gonna meet tonight? Wanna hear it all!!
Apr 17, 2007 3:12 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
What happened to you? Are you hooked up too?

Is she back yet or are they gonna meet tonight? Wanna hear it all!!
Apr 17, 2007 3:14 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
Ooops blushing
Apr 18, 2007 1:03 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
donnacala
donnacaladonnacalaNorth York, Ontario Canada27 Threads 875 Posts
noooooooooooo, i am not hooked up shy........

just that the same situation once happened to me and it was great......needless to say that we are not a "we" anymore but I know exactly what she was thinking.......

but there IS a couple of 'em that have "tickled my fancy" if ya know what I mean.....yay

trust me, if I get bitten by the LOVE BUG, all of you guys will know!grin
Apr 18, 2007 7:23 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
Kenai
KenaiKenaiBeausejour, Canada13 Threads 368 Posts
Hey guys!
Well the date went great we hit it off and he is really as sweet as he claimed to be.
Not a bad kisser either but i got to teach him a thing or two lol No just kidding.
It went great!
But this morning he messaged me in yahoo and said that we needed to talk about a few things.
One of them being that i don't want any more kids. Well yes that is true i don't want any more! I can't do it health wise and i really don't want any more.
I made that clear to him but he has his heart set on children of his own. Now he is torn between me and the idea of kids. He doesn't know what he is supposed to do.
I told him that he needs to make his own decision i can't make it for him and i'll be damned if i am going to stop him from fulfilling his dream.
I would rather let him go to find someone who can give him what he is looking for then to force him to want what i want.
Thats just not me.
So i guess it wasn't meant to be because if he has just one grain of doubt that he can't live without kids of his own then we are not going to work because in the longrun he will be miserable.
We will see what he decides and go from there. If its meant to be its meant to be, if not then i guess life goes on....
No matter which way he choses i will be fine! I always am!
Laters all and thanks for all your support! You guys are the best! Hugs to all of you! hug
Apr 18, 2007 7:33 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
CaptainMurray
CaptainMurrayCaptainMurraySelkirk, Manitoba Canada59 Threads 2,130 Posts
Kenai, it's an important part of a serious relationship, no doubt. If one wants kids and the other doesn't, normally it will end. However, you can't tell that yet. If you two really hit it off, one of you may change your mind. It is a tough call and I'm pulling for you. Hope it works out the way it's supposed to...whatever that is. By the way, did he get to speak this time?
Apr 18, 2007 7:34 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
TrueNorthMan7
TrueNorthMan7TrueNorthMan7Barrie, Canada34 Threads 1,096 Posts
Can't argue with your decision.

It makes total sense.

I just can't believe he and you are at that point in the relationship. Talking about whether or not to have a child seems like something for much, much later in the relationship.

Didn't you just meet this guy? Why not just see how things go? Enjoy each other's company. Have some fun.
Apr 18, 2007 8:07 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
Tapestry
TapestryTapestryRichmond Hill, Ontario Canada2 Threads 222 Posts
hug

Just a big, public hug for you!! All the other girly stuff we've exchanged in emails already!!

sigh
Apr 18, 2007 9:35 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
Tapestry
TapestryTapestryRichmond Hill, Ontario Canada2 Threads 222 Posts
Now, now boys...let's be fair...this is one of the things one puts into his/her profile and naturally one or both of them might have been concerned about opposing views on something so important.

I don't imagine that the discussion was 'when are we going to start a family' but was rather a bit more general than that!!

I can tell you that if I received an email and checked out his profile and found that he wanted a quiver full of children (of his own), I would likely mention it early on! This baby factory is closed for business!! One near death experience was enough for me!! rolling on the floor laughing

Just my two cents!!

cheers
Apr 18, 2007 9:50 PM CST You are not goint to believe this!
tazmaninangel
tazmaninangeltazmaninangelEdmonton, Alberta Canada118 Threads 1 Polls 2,608 Posts
don't want to rain on anyone here - but I agree with the guys...but thats just me.. I no longer jump into the deep end without knowing how deep it is..


But Kenai - I do only hope the best - go for it and enjoyhead banger
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