You are not goint to believe this! (31)

No no no it is nothing serious like that. We went out to my sisters place for an hour cause i had to drop something off for her and we got to joking around.
My sister has a little baby girl almost 2 years old. I said oh she is so cute i just want to take her home. My sister replied no you go and make your own. I said no thank you i have enough don't want anymore.
Well he heard all this and got to thinkin, since in his future he always saw himself with his own child.
That is for him a big thing and he figured that he would ask me how i seriously thought about having more kids.
I told him no. I really don't want any more kids. I am glad that he told me this right at the beginning before it could come up later on down the road and we both would seriously get hurt.
Because lets face it if we do get into a relationship and we are 2 or 3 years from now there will be big feelings involved and it will hurt when he then has to decide if he wants me or the dream of children.
So i gave him the time to think about it.
He is very honest and i appreciate that very much so. And i am glad that i know his point of view about the whole children deal.
Cause it is easy to end it now before it started and we both don't get hurt instead of a few years down the road.
It does not mean that we were planning anything in that direction it was just a subject that came up.
So no worries.
Thank you all for your input i really do appreciate it. Hugs to all of you.
Thanks for the nice e mails Tepestry! Many hugs to you

Hey all!!
Well here is the update! After waiting and finally giving him a time limit to finish his "thinking process" I got an answer!
His words were: "I thought a lot about everything and looked at it from every angle. I do like you very much, and we do have a lot of things in common and i really don't want to lose you. So i guess you are just going to have to be my girlfriend."


Thought i'll let you guys know. Now i hope it all works out in the long run.
Hugs to all of you.

Congrats

Hope you have fun, fun, fun

Kenai we all know your somthing special - you rock girl!
Don't forget to write

It doesn't get much better than that, does it? Well not yet!! I'm thrilled for you!!

I'm really happy for you,wishing u all the best.

Thanks guys! Now its wait and see how its going to go right? lol
And no i am not going to leave you here all alone cause lets face it you can't live without me

Couldn't leave my online buddies here all alone. Someone's got to keep ya all in line right?

Oh man i wish you all wouldn't live so far away! Man could we ever have a great time and lots of fun!

K got to go and make supper laters all and hugs to all of you!!!

Update!
Well yesterday he came out for a visit and to meet the kids. The kids didn't seem to mind him and he like my little rascals too.
It was a nice afternoon spend together and we get along great!
He is coming out for another visit on Saturday and then i will have him all day!