Do men really date single mothers? (16)

Apr 18, 2007 7:51 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
mylilprincess
mylilprincessmylilprincessYuma, Arizona USA6 Threads 63 Posts
I'm a single mother of a beautiful 11 month old daughter. Where I live I have yet to meet a real man that can accpet the fact that my child is everything to me and that she will alway and forever come first before any man does.

I have been single since I was 3 months pregnant and I have yet to go out on a date. I want too but guys around here fear me or something. Not really sure why.

So do men really date single mothers or is it more of a pitty date?doh
Apr 19, 2007 8:01 AM CST Do men really date single mothers?
giovanni7
giovanni7giovanni7tempe, Arizona USA1 Threads 6 Posts
WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO IS GO TO RONS OR JIMMIE DEE'S AND SAY MY HUSBAND IS IN IRAQ COMR BACK TO MY HOUSE.. LOL... THATS HOW IT GOES IN YUMA... LOL
Apr 23, 2007 12:19 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
mylilprincess
mylilprincessmylilprincessYuma, Arizona USA6 Threads 63 Posts
scold Sorry, I'm NOT a bar rat!scold
Apr 23, 2007 8:54 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
Starborn63
Starborn63Starborn63Tucson, Arizona USA5 Posts
If your child doesn't come first, I would have no respect for you! Hang in there girl, we do exist.
Apr 26, 2007 10:27 AM CST Do men really date single mothers?
giovanni7
giovanni7giovanni7tempe, Arizona USA1 Threads 6 Posts
yeah ahh it was a joke... but hey maybe i should come on here and pretend im the best person in the world and try to hold up a poised appearance for other people who dont really care because their worried about their own fake appearances and dont have time for petty stuff.
Apr 28, 2007 7:49 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
AZRIDER
AZRIDERAZRIDERPhoenix, Arizona USA4 Posts
I think you said it all.

"Where I live I have yet to meet a real man that can accpet the fact that my child is everything to me and that she will alway and forever come first before any man does."

A "real man" wouldn't want to date someone that puts up a wall like that. I wish you lot of luck.
Apr 29, 2007 3:46 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
mylilprincess
mylilprincessmylilprincessYuma, Arizona USA6 Threads 63 Posts
Wall..... Hummm.... I don't call it a wall. Lovers will come and go but your child is FOREVER!!!!professor

I take it that you do NOT have kids or you would understand that they ALWAYS come first.

That or your a dead beat dad who only cares about getting his bump for the night!

You need some real life help pal!

help
Apr 29, 2007 7:10 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
flip801
flip801flip801Phoenix, Arizona USA6 Posts
Of course your kid is your priority, but it's important to have some balance in your life. Sorry dear, but +1 on the "wall". I don't think you would've fired back with insults if it didn't hit some sort of nerve.
May 1, 2007 10:19 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
AZRIDER
AZRIDERAZRIDERPhoenix, Arizona USA4 Posts
Wall..... Hummm.... I don't call it a wall. Lovers will come and go but your child is FOREVER!!!!professor

I take it that you do NOT have kids or you would understand that they ALWAYS come first.

That or your a dead beat dad who only cares about getting his bump for the night!

You need some real life help pal!


Wow you got all that out of a few sentences I wrote. I guess I was wrong.
May 8, 2007 6:26 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
blue1
blue1blue1phoenix, Arizona USA7 Threads 62 Posts
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Jul 16, 2007 6:48 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
sgr23
sgr23sgr23Tempe, Arizona USA2 Threads 8 Posts
Sure. You're seriously hot, and seem relatively intelligent.

If I can't find a lovely woman who likes what I like (gaming, b-movies, blah blah) sure, I'll take a woman with kids who like what I like. I get a good woman, and still have someone to share my hobbies with.

Your situation, mylilprincess, sadly, is that you're too far away.

In a few years, I'm sure your daughter would love to play with some of the pieces I use for Organized Play at the local game shop.
Jul 20, 2007 7:14 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
LatinPisces27
LatinPisces27LatinPisces27Mesa, Arizona USA1 Posts
Well I can sort of relate to what your going through. Even men go through that? I've been pratically raising my son on my own. It's hard but someone's got to do it right? And I don't regret any moment of it. We have lot's of fun together so hang in there and keep your head up! Take care of yourself you sound like a wonderful women.
Jul 21, 2007 12:10 AM CST Do men really date single mothers?
dontess
dontessdontessphoenix, Arizona USA12 Posts
im going to go out on a limb and say its not the child that is pushing the men away but rather you. from your little sepal if you do pick a man its probably going to be a bad one as doctor drew would say on love line your wiring is all screwed up. as a man i have no problem dating a woman with a child but if i dont go out with a woman it is not going to be because of her kid. so the bare truth of it all DO NOT USE your kid as a crutch go get some help from some one with a phd.
Aug 15, 2007 3:33 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
amadeus1
amadeus1amadeus1Scottsdale, Arizona USA1 Threads 23 Posts
hey guess i think what mylilprincess is trying to say is that her daughter comes first befor other things ,she is not putting up a wall she is just being caustious for her daughter ,i agree with for as i am a single parent to iv raised my son since he was three monthes old by myself so i see were her concern lies .And as for you mylilprincess im in the same boat as you its hard to find someone who is interested in someone with kids so keep your head up and take good care of that little girl they are irreplacible,and you will find someone it just takes time and the right one will find you :-) mattinnocent
Aug 18, 2007 8:39 AM CST Do men really date single mothers?
nuckelhead34
nuckelhead34nuckelhead34Chandler, Arizona USA2 Posts
Any man you date needs to understand that your child will always come first no matter what.Please don't be like some mothers and bring every date you have home to meet your daughter,she doesn't need to be exposed to several different men.Good luck young lady.
Sep 15, 2007 1:36 PM CST Do men really date single mothers?
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
There's somebody out there that would love to go out with you. Some men kind of do prefer a woman who a child already. It makes the dates easier, I bet. They can bring their kid and you bring yours and all of you can go to Chucky Cheese or something. I'm sure it's easier.
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