mylilprincess Forum Posts (63)

RE: Star signs

Pisces

True to every word written about my sign!

RE: whats the most expensive thing a partner has brought for you??

Tinymac & Paulpete have the right answers! Way to go boys!

Working in Germany

Hi,

A friend of mine in Hamburg has told me that if I get my TEFL certificate then I can start teaching English there in Germany. (American English is my mother tongue.)

The pay is not that great. (About 1800 euro a month) But it's a chance for me to do something different in my life.

Is there anyone out there in CS land that has their TEFL or is teaching English in Europe?

If yes to either question, what is it like? Is this something I should really start looking into?

Being in a desert town that is 12 miles from Mexico and a military town there is NOT and I repeat NOT much job oppertunities here for me.

I do not speak Spanish and on base they only really give jobs to lower rank wives.

SO!!!! I need out of this town and seek something else.

Just wondering if anyone had any kind of input on TEFL and teaching in Germany.


Thanks!

Am I normal for just having nightmares?

Thank you ladies for your kind thoughts and advice.

I do see a doctor about this problem and I refuse to take any kind of med's they push on you like it's candy.

I don't mean to push men away. I don't do it with an open mind so to speak.

I think your right in saying that my mind is protecting me and my child.

It's nice having a male companion around and maybe I will find one that will be there for me and understand what kind of hell I dealt with.

Maybe someday I will find a man who will pull me closer and make me open up again.

Time will tell right?!?!?

But again, thank you very much for your kind words.

RE: Hints and Tips on sleeping..

I have a king size pillow and a body pillow. When I just cannot fall asleep I curle up with my body pillow that has a male colone smell and it seems to work 50% of the time.

You can use a ladies perfume instead if you want!

Am I normal for just having nightmares?

Am I normal for just having nightmares?

Okay, here is what happened and what is going on with me.

I moved to Germany in August 05 and I met this amazing guy and feel so head over hills for him and we started living together. October 1st 05, I found out that I was pregnant with twins. I was told that I could never become pregnant so as you can guess I was ecstatic about the news!

When I went home and told the father he flipped out really bad. After a few weeks went by he came around and was looking forward to the birth. And when I was 10 weeks along the father came to me and started talking about marriage and how to go about getting an American green card and so forth.

I told him that getting married because I am pregnant is something I do not care to do. If anything I would think about marring him after the twins turn a year old. He got VERY angry and said “YOU WILL GET ME A GREEN CARD! I WANT TO BE AN AMERICAN!”

I said “NO” and then he beat me so bad the police had to get 3 guys and a baton on him in order to get him off of me. I lost one of the twins and the other was fighting for dear life. Once free from the hospital I grabbed my passport and wallet and just drove to Hamburg and got on a flight back home to Arizona.

Death threat by email, phone and text messages non-stop for months. In May 06 I gave birth to a beautiful little girl and she is normal with no effects of the beating I got from the father. Currently I am fighting the father for child support with no help coming from the German courts.

So now my daughter is 13 months old and I now feel ready to start dating again. It’s hard but I really want to have a man companion in my life.

And so here is where I ask you if I am normal or just having nightmares.

Anytime a guy expresses any kind of interest in me, that night when I go to sleep I ALWAYS have nightmares of the father and the next day I will push away the guy who expressed an interest. This happens every single time. The nightmares only happen when a guy peeks my interest!

I have absolutely no why this happens! Do you advice for me?
Thank you....

RE: Why???would someone choose a relationship that was codependant

Yes, I think you need to stop answering the phone and if this person stops you and asks why your not around just be blunt and up front and say that you have your own matters to attened too right now.

And if this person can't understand then, well dear your better off finding new friends.

Just my 2 cents worth tonight~

Am I normal for just having nightmares?

Am I normal for just having nightmares?

Okay, here is what happened and what is going on with me.

I moved to Germany in August 05 and I met this amazing guy and feel so head over hills for him and we started living together. October 1st 05, I found out that I was pregnant with twins. I was told that I could never become pregnant so as you can guess I was ecstatic about the news!

When I went home and told the father he flipped out really bad. After a few weeks went by he came around and was looking forward to the birth. And when I was 10 weeks along the father came to me and started talking about marriage and how to go about getting an American green card and so forth.

I told him that getting married because I am pregnant is something I do not care to do. If anything I would think about marring him after the twins turn a year old. He got VERY angry and said “YOU WILL GET ME A GREEN CARD! I WANT TO BE AN AMERICAN!”

I said “NO” and then he beat me so bad the police had to get 3 guys and a baton on him in order to get him off of me. I lost one of the twins and the other was fighting for dear life. Once free from the hospital I grabbed my passport and wallet and just drove to Hamburg and got on a flight back home to Arizona.

Death threat by email, phone and text messages non-stop for months. In May 06 I gave birth to a beautiful little girl and she is normal with no effects of the beating I got from the father. Currently I am fighting the father for child support with no help coming from the German courts.

So now my daughter is 13 months old and I now feel ready to start dating again. It’s hard but I really want to have a man companion in my life.

And so here is where I ask you if I am normal or just having nightmares.

Anytime a guy expresses any kind of interest in me, that night when I go to sleep I ALWAYS have nightmares of the father and the next day I will push away the guy who expressed an interest. This happens every single time. The nightmares only happen when a guy peeks my interest!

I have absolutely no why this happens! Do you advice for me?
Thank you....

RE: how old was u when u was deflowered??

13he was 19 And it wasand a major

RE: Need Advice about WHAT Norwegian men want ...... ?

Your not giving us much to go on here.

What does he say?

How does he act when your on the phone?

What do YOU think the problem is?

Are you just being scared that he will replace you because you are both so far apart?

Need more info in order to help you out with advice!

RE: Use one/two 'positive' word to describe your ex

My BEAUTIFUL daughter!

But that's all that was good about him!

RE: One for the Ladies. (Sorry men, you were warned)

Beautiful! Just beautiful and true in most cases!

RE: how long have you been single?

5 1/2 years and counting!

Profile Help!!!!

Sweetmanfouru: Your so VERY SWEET indeed! Never count your self out of the game! You never know what you will get until you try.

I've only been to London once. I had to change flights. But looking outside the windows the rain looked nice. Never rains in Yuma!

Profile Help!!!!

I'm part Cherokee and hot headed! I don't need to add an Irishman with a hot temper to my life!

Yes, Yuma is far away from anyone and YES IT'S HOT!!!!

Profile Help!!!!

Hi everyone!

Okay here it is. I have changed my profile many times since I have been on CS. (9 Months and counting). But here is my problem.

I have had a few guys chat me up but nothing romantic ever came about. Just email friendships & I'm cool with that.

But I'm ready to have at least 1 date from CS.

Don't know if I'm being to picky or what but I really go for men with blue eye's, big beautiful lips, meat on his bones (Not a skinny guy). Not all of these things are required but is desired.

So tell me what you think I should do with my profile to attract more men?

Does anyone else live in Yuma besides me?

Bud, Your very sweet! Thank you for your very kind and understanding email.

Do men really date single mothers?

Wall..... Hummm.... I don't call it a wall. Lovers will come and go but your child is FOREVER!!!!

I take it that you do NOT have kids or you would understand that they ALWAYS come first.

That or your a dead beat dad who only cares about getting his bump for the night!

You need some real life help pal!

Do men really date single mothers?

Sorry, I'm NOT a bar rat!

Do men really date single mothers?

I'm a single mother of a beautiful 11 month old daughter. Where I live I have yet to meet a real man that can accpet the fact that my child is everything to me and that she will alway and forever come first before any man does.

I have been single since I was 3 months pregnant and I have yet to go out on a date. I want too but guys around here fear me or something. Not really sure why.

So do men really date single mothers or is it more of a pitty date?

Does anyone else live in Yuma besides me?

Shows? As in movies? Yuma has grown so big now and things are getting better. It's almost like a real city now!

RE: the riches

It's just so hard for me to watch "The Riches" because I just L-O-V-E Eddie Izzard walking around in womens clothes. If you have seen his shows then you know what I'm talking about. To see him as a normal looking man.... It's just not the same. But hey if he is giving up the drag act then I would love to have his old clothes! Great dresser!

RE: hey all you beautiful gals out there

FREAK!!!!

RE: why do foreign men have manners and grace

I sent you an email explaining my thoughts. I don't know you personaly and I was aiming the post towards people I personaly know. You'll see what I'm talking about in the email.

Side note: I do NOT hate Germans per say. Just the ones who offer no jutice for my daughter.

RE: why do foreign men have manners and grace

I find Germans to be some of the most rudes people on earth. I know this for a fact!

RE: My new name IS----

Dr. Sleezy Chucklehead is here to help!

Does anyone else live in Yuma besides me?

Awww, your very sweet!

RE: Anna Nichol

I can see your point.

RE: Anna Nichol

I just looked all this info up on the net and his name is Anderson not Andrew.

But scary how Glorias life seems to be the same as Anna's daughter at the moment!

Does anyone else live in Yuma besides me?

Does anyone else live in Yuma besides me? I can't find anyone from CS that lives in Yuma or near by. Makes dating hard!

The next biggest town is PHX and it's a 3 hour drive. Not a very fun drive for a nice dinner and a show.