whats wrong with just dateing ? ( Archived) (32)

Dec 26, 2006 7:17 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
A rush for commitment can be a scary thing. I think the more you know someone the less scary a commitment can be. But if you are dating more than one then isn't it possible to get mixed up when dating? I think one should get to know themselves before they get to know others but getting to know others helps one to get to know themselves.
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Dec 26, 2006 7:31 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
the thing here is the question of friends. what do friends do. they don't get dresed up for dinner. they don't do a lot of things that you do when you date so what are you wanting? friends or a date.
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Dec 26, 2006 7:40 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
hazzemania
hazzemaniahazzemaniaLulea, Norrbotten Sweden18 Threads 2 Polls 219 Posts
Some girls that rush things a little to much scares the crap out of me. Nowadays I really do take my time as I have no desire to rush into a bad relationship that´ll last a year tops.
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Dec 26, 2006 7:50 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
I thought this was a great thread that Kristi started. I have been meaning to get back to it when I could make a more rational reply to it. I really think it is a loaded thread in its contents about how people can view commitment versus dating. I mean it can be hard to separate at times and with friends one doesn't have to be fancy and can be more at ease in my opinion.
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Dec 26, 2006 8:00 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
I know what you mean about the fear of getting hooked with the wrong one. I am glad that you have the maturity to take your time. I mean its your life and your decision. Once one leaves the single state then things can change. I think that is why the marriage vow states for better or for worse. I wonder how many people bank on the "for better" but really don't anticipate the "for worse".
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Dec 27, 2006 12:18 AM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
fun_to_be_real
fun_to_be_realfun_to_be_realBugibba, Malta16 Threads 151 Posts
My little view about this:

Dating is fine, sounding the ground is fine, see what happens is fine, rushing is not...

But, having said that I would not date more than one person at a time.
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Dec 29, 2006 8:05 AM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
tucker1967
tucker1967tucker1967salt lake city, Utah USA1 Threads 141 Posts
why not the more the merrier laugh
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Dec 29, 2006 8:10 AM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
mixxy
mixxymixxyrockdale, Texas USA3 Threads 229 Posts
nothings wrong with just dating rushing in to a relationship is dangerous and harmful to your health uh oh kick back have fun and enjoy eachothers company kiss cheers hug peace
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Dec 29, 2006 8:15 AM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
tucker1967
tucker1967tucker1967salt lake city, Utah USA1 Threads 141 Posts
i just love it cheers
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Dec 30, 2006 3:03 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
Hal1949
Hal1949Hal1949Carbondale, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 581 Posts
There is nothing wrong with dating, as long as you live close enough to date. or find a rich person with his own private jet. Some people cant afford to travel back and forth fromone end of the United States ,or around the world..wave cool
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Dec 30, 2006 3:07 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
Wildness
WildnessWildnessMesa, USA92 Threads 1,549 Posts
wow i agree with you 100% to date someone is to get to know them

but also i have found on the internet datting PPL Move way to fast into the forever thing , it would be nice to get to know someone on this site take your time and then meet if its right.


just my 2 cents worth
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Dec 30, 2006 3:11 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
I however am not in a rush I will take my time being committed















stupid voicesmumbling
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