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This past week he has been acting different around me. Normaly he comes over almost every night and if not normaly calls me. This week since saturday he has come over once and that was for maybe an hour if even that.
Today was his birthday. Last week I had told him that if he had no plans that we could go out for dinner or that I could do something special for him here at home. He seemed to be happy with that. Well tuesday (day before his birthday) he tells me that he will be spending his birthday with his friends. Apparently his friends and roomates had planned something for him for a few weeks now. So why didn't he tell me that last week then??
If you were in a relationship wouldn't you want to spend your birthday with your bf/gf?? I mean in my nature I know I would like to at least spend some sort of time with the one I am with for my birthday. Does not neccasarily (sp?) all day or night but you know. At least arrange something right?
I also have this profile on Facebook and so does he. He tells me earlier tonight on the phone (I called him he did not call me) that he didn't like how I talked about my daily life on there. I never even mention his name and I don't even talk about personal things. Just the everyday thoughts and ponders like we do here know what I mean?
I asked him if there was something he was not telling me since he has not been over since saturday and barely says boo to me unless I make the first contact. He says there is nothing wrong. And gets all defensive saying he feels pressed by me all of a sudden. WTF?? He was the one who came to see me often and he knows I allow him his space. I never once pressured him into anything. So of course my first reaction this week was just plain innocent concern because he wasn't around. Its called Communication. I just wanted to make sure everything was okay. Wasn't looking to make an argument out of it.
I am upset to say the least and don't even know what to think right now. He is confusing me. He is distant this week but yet he e-mails me today saying how dear I was to him and then he freaks on me when I call him tonight to wish him happy birthday. And he even began the call by saying how super happy he was that I called him.
What is your take on this? Because honestly I don't know what to make of this anymore