It happened a long time ago. It was in 1983. I wasnt a believer back then, but still I forgave her. You know what I am talking about. He who is without sin, cast the first stone!! Had I not forgiven her, how could I have gotten on with my life? To all man-kind.
Sorry sweet. But alot of us have expeienced similar situations and no it's not funny. But we can't keep hurting over other peoples falts. It's all good.
SMILEITSALLGOOD, I know, we live in crazy times. We fall so deeply in love with our partners, put our lives on the line, do everything to please, but I refuse to say that I will never marry again. Im nearly 51, have an awesome life, love what I do, have dancing as my passion, surrounded by people who love me unconditionally, but would love to meet someone who would want to share my life "Till death do we part".
I know it still goes on in some places. In my eyes it is the wrong thing to do, in these so-called modern times. What gives a macho man the right to beat up his woman or even kill her. The shame of being caught out & to live with that shame in the home & the community would be a life sentence.
Even though I caught out my wife, I felt angry, very angry I did not lay a hand on her, or him. I didnt have to do anything. She had to carry the guilt, not me. Forgiveness is power. Try it sometime.
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