Outside CS...how soon? (21)
LillyofthevalleySt John's, Newfoundland Canada38 Threads 3,152 PostsOk here is the deal. I don't think I'm a prude but maybe I am cyber prude? How many of you girls think it's ok to jump right into yahooing or msning as soon as contact is first made? I like to get a feel for someone first see what they are like on the forums. There is only one person I have givin my email too and he's earned it and he offered his first. Am I not in this century or what?
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I think if you have an unidentifiable name in MSN or Yahoo that doesn't give your true last name you could exchange e-mails. It's a lot easier to communicate in that type of messenger than it is within a site. I've gone it and have not had any problems with it. Although, I have had the odd one who appears too anxious to meet me and I won't offer my private e-mail cause I get a funny feeling it's a little more than just a "chat" their looking for! LOL
Since being on this site though, I have never experienced that and I'm really glad! I've chatted with some very nice people on this site! :)
Hope that helps????
Since being on this site though, I have never experienced that and I'm really glad! I've chatted with some very nice people on this site! :)
Hope that helps????
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I think it is good to be a little cautious.
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yes cautious is good
very good... listen and learn i always say!
and trust yer gut!
very good... listen and learn i always say!
and trust yer gut!
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i have made that mistake once so i have been a little more cautious
gave an yahoo address taked a couple times then recieved a picture and low and behold
deleted my yahoo account
ran anti-virous twice
ran ad-ware soft ware twice
ran spy ware three times
glad i got it like as soon as it hit
still do not have not reinstalled yahoo
lol
ran programs again and seems that everything is cleaned up
dog gone it is bad ya gotta watch out for those ctd's on dating sites
hhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm
gave an yahoo address taked a couple times then recieved a picture and low and behold
deleted my yahoo account
ran anti-virous twice
ran ad-ware soft ware twice
ran spy ware three times
glad i got it like as soon as it hit
still do not have not reinstalled yahoo
lol
ran programs again and seems that everything is cleaned up
dog gone it is bad ya gotta watch out for those ctd's on dating sites
hhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm
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I don't see any problems with taking it to messenger. Both Yahoo and MSN allow you to go with cam and audio. With typing, meanings tend to get lost and what you say can be taken in the wrong context. I like going to either of these messengers as it allows me to get to know someone better. I never give out my private email at first, only my yahoo or hotmail. Yahoo now has virus scanning for email. Not sure with hotmail but I use antivirus on my comp anyways and all email is scanned coming and going.
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i usually get to talking with someone here then if i feel ready i give them my msn messenger i love it i now have audio so i can actually talk to the person and let them hear my tone of voice when i say something
laurie
laurie
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Audio and video is great. The only way to go..much easier than typing. And more fun to.
Go for it Lilly what do you have to lose..?
Pete
Go for it Lilly what do you have to lose..?
Pete
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I vote for Sykpe too because it's more like a telephone.
The messengers like Yahoo and MSN are good if you spend a lot of time at the keyboard.
A good antivirus program and a decent firewall are ESSENTIAL!
The messengers like Yahoo and MSN are good if you spend a lot of time at the keyboard.
A good antivirus program and a decent firewall are ESSENTIAL!
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Now Allen, you haven't done that for me. I am so bummed!!! LOL
But on the other hand, I don't use the messengers :)
But on the other hand, I don't use the messengers :)
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I am thinking it is ok if you keep your privacy for awhile.
I met up last night with a lady I met from a Christian Site. Dinner was $150 with a bottle of wine. She started telling me her likes and dislikes. Fine.
I tried to kiss her. In a public place so that she knew it was just a kiss. She stopped me and said she wanted to go slow. I said, goodnight and left her there. Maybe it is wrong thinking but just a kiss in a public place? If she says no to that, but yes to a $150 dinner, that is not who I would like to spend my life with. I think when you find out that the other person will not fit, stop contact, not rudely, but don't spend another second. What do you think?
I met up last night with a lady I met from a Christian Site. Dinner was $150 with a bottle of wine. She started telling me her likes and dislikes. Fine.
I tried to kiss her. In a public place so that she knew it was just a kiss. She stopped me and said she wanted to go slow. I said, goodnight and left her there. Maybe it is wrong thinking but just a kiss in a public place? If she says no to that, but yes to a $150 dinner, that is not who I would like to spend my life with. I think when you find out that the other person will not fit, stop contact, not rudely, but don't spend another second. What do you think?
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hmmm ahh I don't see anything wrong with a kiss in public but maybe you could have communicated your feelings to her instead of leaving abruptly. Yea might have just have had a miscommunication of intent...
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sounds like the dinner was conditional to me ...
shouldn't matter how much you spend if you tried that with me on the first meeting i would have been the one to get up and leave!
where is your respect!
shouldn't matter how much you spend if you tried that with me on the first meeting i would have been the one to get up and leave!
where is your respect!
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so tue why not a kiss on the cheek or ask her if it was ok for you to kiss her
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hey townwood !! whatcha doin next friday nite!!???
;o)
;o)
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ROTFLMAO....
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ssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
lily!!!!!
you're gonna give me away!
lily!!!!!
you're gonna give me away!
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Well I'm thinking of Steak and Lobster...
Then a little you for dessert ;) ;)
...of course if you're reserved it's Burger King
Then a little you for dessert ;) ;)
...of course if you're reserved it's Burger King
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shall i pick you up at Schipol???
or will you taxi into Amsterdam!!!?
lol!
:o)
or will you taxi into Amsterdam!!!?
lol!
:o)
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You crack me up ...lol
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