You said love is how you feel and I know you can't control your feelings...and yes I guess there can be unfortunate consequences in a relationship but I think those consequences are not from love but from fear which is the opposite of love. Love is what we are born with...fear is what we learn....fear stems from hate.....and to truly love, sometimes we learn to let go ....and we learn..."Our last true freedom is the the freedom to choose our attitude in any situation." With love as our guide we become better people. With fear, well....it is okay to fear but you can not allow it to be your master.
And the opposite of love is not hate but apathy and sometimes things can be broken so they can not be fixed but I don't know if I have the ability for total apathy...I always care about people and wish them the best whether they care about themselves or not. I am not the most compassionate, generous person in the world...but I have compassion. It is good to have compassion...I have always been very sensitive to other people's suffering and needs... but I have learned through experience that this can be a lovely rose with thorns attached. The danger is in going too far, giving too much, developing a soft head to go along with a soft heart. We must know balance....And as a fellow Libra, you know we seek balance.
And I do believe we have the voice inside of us that knows what is best for us and we need to be still and feel our feelings....even fear and listen to what the voice tells us...it is the voice of wisdom, intution, and love.
:0)) and dont forget that we human beings sometimes think that we finally have found the true love but even if it looks real love on surface, deep down it can be clearly seen that it is was an illusion that our heart wants to believe in and we dedicate all our selves to that and at the end guess what? a big fat disappointment, but we all know that true love is NOT a mistake, so go for it and keep searchin' and enjoy every experience u have in the direction of ur true love target, feel like a love proffesor ,lmao... But like someone who used to say in here "what do i know??"
I recently had my heart broke...I mean I fell in love...I fell hard for a younger man and he has some issues and could not love me or show me that he loved me in return. He said he has to have his freedom. I told him he wants his freedom, I want my freedom too. He wants to run around and not care about other people's feelings and try to drive them crazy....he better be careful that it doesn't happen to him.
So, yes I fall and I was hurt, but at best I can pick myself back up and travel on and I am a little bit stronger, a little bit wiser and a little better person...how can love be a mistake?
I don't know when or with who it will happen again but I am sure that energy is with another and hopefully it will be better love next time....cos with a rebel's yell...she said more, more, more. j/k well kind of.
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