what does it mean when.......... (17)
samesizefeethere, Malta122 Threads 823 Postsyour dateing a guy and he is very negative at the begining for example... he says there isnt much chance you`ll have a future togther!! is it worth dateing him any longer and hopeing things will turn out well or forget it now ??
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It seems he already has his mind made up, I wouldn't waste my time or energy on him.
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yeh thats what i fort. we been dateing a month or so and get on fantastic. but when i asked him how he feels he said this.... " well i dont know but if i balance it all out i guess we dont have a future" so we broke it off and we got in contact again and supposed to be meeting for dinner tonight, but am i wasting my time?he said he missed me. 
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Does he really miss you or is he just bored and looking for some company? I have been in this situation before. It didn't work out. It sounds like you really like him though. If you really like him,I would go but don't expect to much from him. If I were you I would still date others. You never know when he will disappear again.
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Honey you are def wasting your time there 
give him a wide berth, and if its truly meant to be he will come to you in time
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good idea 
thats what ill do. mention that we date other people and see what he got to say about that! what u reckon?
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Definately say you want to date other people. But be sure you read between the lines when he answers you. He may want to date others,but won't want you to.
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Mailed you 
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thanks 
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hay yes thank you. when do we know when were wastin our time? i mean ive wasted yrs on men and theyve lied to me sayin they wanna be with me forever... then leave after they get what they want
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Maybe you need to address what is within you
I'll put it to you this way...if a girlfriend of yours asked you for advise on the same situation,,,what would you say to her?
Wouldnt you tell her that she is worth more than that and shouldnt expected any less? Is she that afraid of being on her own that she will take the frogs that are out there instead.
just my 2 cents worth Hun
I'll put it to you this way...if a girlfriend of yours asked you for advise on the same situation,,,what would you say to her?
Wouldnt you tell her that she is worth more than that and shouldnt expected any less? Is she that afraid of being on her own that she will take the frogs that are out there instead.
just my 2 cents worth Hun
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Been there also. I was actually living with a guy. Then I got sick, in and out of hosp for a year. Said he couldn't handle it and left. I don't know when we are wasting our time. I wasted two years on him. I guess we just have to be more intuitive?
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thanks for the mail ill update this section tomorrow 
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Good luck
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Believe him.
Forget it now.
(say to yourself: 'Next' )
Forget it now.
(say to yourself: 'Next' )
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it means he wants to have fun
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It really sounds as if he doesn't know what he wants, and he may not ever know i would just move on
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