did I say that money meant nothing to me? Ofcourse you have to have money to live in this world. I just don't see the need to judge people who don't have a home at 40 as irresponsible. Or to say that love cannot withstand poverty. I say that love is more important than money, not that money is not necessary and two people should not do the best they can to provide for themselves and their children. And when hardships come if it is love it doesn't go out the window...I find that to be cynical. Love comes from within, adversity can build character and a little patience without judgement sometimes goes a long way and last a lifetime, which is much longer and meaningful than those couple hours you spent having a romantic dinner.
so those that are "more fortunate" then others meet and fall in love .. then dire hardship "financial" befalls them. your thought is if it was true love their marriage will survive. the same goes for the reverse two "unfortunate types" meet fall inlove then some great windfall ( financial) happens to them... this will have no effect on their relationship, that is if they love one another?
damn that's a pretty sentiment, almost... fairytaleish. how many times I hoped that for others, to be as you describe... to sum up, it does happen as you describe its rare but it is possible, the odds and the stats speak otherwise.
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Or to say that love cannot withstand poverty. I say that love is more important than money, not that money is not necessary and two people should not do the best they can to provide for themselves and their children. And when hardships come if it is love it doesn't go out the window...I find that to be cynical.
Love comes from within, adversity can build character and a little patience without judgement sometimes goes a long way and last a lifetime, which is much longer and meaningful than those couple hours you spent having a romantic dinner.